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Shad Faraydoon Hama (b. Nov. 18, 1999 – d. June 6, 2009)

June 6, 2009 by Jeremy 

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Shad Faraydoon Hama passed away this morning after ten years of fighting the heart disease, blood problems, and the resulting pulmonary embolism that finally took his life.

Dr. Sertaç Çiçek and his team tried everything known in the realm of pediatric cardiology to save Shad’s life… but in the end ten years of suffering had taken too much of a toll on his increasingly fragile body.

On June 3rd – when Shad was still surprising everyone by how well he was doing – he and his father talked extensively about when he would be going home. His father insisted that they would leave on Saturday. But Shad – as though he knew something that no one else knew – maintained that he would not be ready to leave by Saturday… that they would return together on the Tuesday morning flight.

In the end, they were both right. Shad did leave this place today, Saturday, June 6th. And his father is scheduled to return to his home city with his son’s body on Tuesday, June 9th.

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As we stood with his father by Shad’s bedside this morning just minutes after his death, the most joyous and saddest words I’ve ever heard with my own ears were spoken by Shad’s father to his little boy. He said:

My dearest little Shad, your life on this earth was so difficult and full of sadness. But it was such a joy for me to have you here. But now your life here is over; you are in Joy and Happiness forever. But now I am the one left in difficulty and sadness without you.

You were like seven sons to me. You were like seven brothers, too. My son! My friend! What will I tell your mother? What will I tell your grandmother? My eldest boy… how can I live without you?

Xwa hafiz, Shada gyan. Xwa hafiz.





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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

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5 Responses to “Shad Faraydoon Hama (b. Nov. 18, 1999 – d. June 6, 2009)”

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  3. Christine on June 6th, 2009 7:56 am

    This makes me so sad. We all prayed so very hard for Shad. But I trust that the Lord we serve is faithful and has a great reason for this, although it’s hard to see amidst the suffering. What beautiful, honoring words from Shad’s father.

  4. Joyce Mason on June 22nd, 2009 5:37 am

    I am so sorry about the loss of your Shad. I too have lost a son, and I know the pain in your soul. I prayed for Shad and your family, and will continue to pray for your and your family. My sadness led me to dispair. It took some time for me to realize that the only way I was to get through this was by my faith in Jesus Christ. For so long my friends prayed for me because I was in so much pain I couldn’t even pray. I knew I needed to ask God for strength to get through each day – sometimes each minute. I kept my head filled with God’s Word. He knows the pain we feel, because His Son, Jesus, died too. He died for us. I prayed. One thing that helped was to focus on the needs of others. Your family will draw strength from you. Jesus never failed me. I saw that He put good things in my life every day – family, friends, a smile. I still think of my child every day and miss him, but I know he is at peace and I know I will see him again. Your Shad was adorable. I love his face! His smile! I can only imagine the love and joy he brought into the life of all who knew him. He will be remembered. You were all so blessed to have him. I send my love and prayers to you, his family and friends. May God bless you all with peace. Don’t let the pain of your loss cause you to lose the joy of what you have. Jesus loves you!

    In Jesus name,
    Joyce

  5. Marna Mccombs on September 1st, 2011 12:12 am

    BBM, an excellent atmospheric article (although as its about Smoggyland that comes with the territory ) Not at all boring. A lot of people are saying Carrols goal was a lucky mis-hit but it seems to me that it was actually the shot he was trying to do, although it could be a little flukey that it came off. By the way it looks like Scotland are after him!Another bit on the NewsNow site is that we could have signed Zinedine Zidan in 1997 for peanuts but wasnt considered good enough!!

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