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June 9, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

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We were on the bus headed to the airplane when a Turkish flight attended came inside the bus and called for Faraydoon Hama – Shad’s father.

We both disembarked and began one of the most painful, maddening, frustrating discussions of our lives with the Turkish airline, the Turkish customs agents, the hired logistics company, and the hospital staff. We had all of 5 minutes to sort out the situation or be left behind.

The situation: Customs was requiring an obscure document from the Iraqi Consulate even though the Iraqi Consulate had assured us that everything we procured yesterday would suffice.

In the end, we were pulled off the plane and Shad’s body was held up in Customs another 5 hours. We’ve been rerouted to a different city in Iraq and are currently set to arrive at 1 a.m. this evening.

After all of that, we were informed that Shad’s body would not be on the flight with us. The logistics company ended up contracting a cargo company to transport the body.

All of this to say, Shad’s father and his family have seen insult upon insult added to great injury. I’m not sure there is much “fault” or “blame” to be cast here, but for a grieving father everything is seen in terms of fault and blame.

If all goes well they will meet their family outside the “gates” of their city at about 4 a.m. to begin the grieving process in earnest.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Shad & The Rest of Us Heading Home to Iraq

June 8, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

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After immeasurable sadness and disappointment Shad’s father, Faraydoon; Faraydoon’s brother-in-law who made a special trip from Sweden to be with him in his loss; and I are boarding a plane Tuesday morning at 11 a.m. in hopes that the logistics firm we hired will be able to complete all of the necessary procedures with Turkish Customs and our partners at Atlasjet airline so that Shad’s body will be able to travel home on the same flight.

We expect scores of people at the airport in Iraq tomorrow afternoon to receive Faraydoon and Shad’s body back and to formally begin the mourning process.

Shad’s life and Shad’s death have affected us each deeply… and it has clearly affected many of you as well. We are so grateful for the depth of your emails and condolences and encouragement that we not grow weary as a result of this horrendous set back but that we push forward for the sake of the thousands of other children in Iraq who – barring a lot of financial generosity and a miracle – could very easily meet a similar end.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Day of Prayer and Preparation for Shad Faraydoon Hama

June 8, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

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Today is a day of prayer and preparation for Shad Faraydoon Hama and the repatriation of his body into Iraq. Today, in accordance with Islamic rites and rituals, a Muslim cleric will be called upon to facilitate the washing of Shad’s body and it’s preparations for burial (which will likely occur sometime tomorrow afternoon, immediately upon arrival in Iraq).

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Meanwhile in Iraq the men of Shad’s family have been praying for Shad and his father in their neighborhood mosque.

These are difficult days and many more are still ahead.

One of the preparations under consideration stems from the desire on the part of some to begin a memorial fund in Shad’s name as a way of funding heart surgeries for kids so that they do not have to wait ten years before they receive their chance at life. Above all, our concern right now is to honor Shad’s family and to not make a show out of his death. He was valuable and loved in his own right – regardless of whether his death leads to the benefit of others.

If we choose to act upon the calls and encouragements for a memorial fund, please know that we will have done so very carefully and in full consultation with his family.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Shad Faraydoon Hama (b. Nov. 18, 1999 – d. June 6, 2009)

June 6, 2009 by Jeremy · 5 Comments 

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Shad Faraydoon Hama passed away this morning after ten years of fighting the heart disease, blood problems, and the resulting pulmonary embolism that finally took his life.

Dr. Sertaç Çiçek and his team tried everything known in the realm of pediatric cardiology to save Shad’s life… but in the end ten years of suffering had taken too much of a toll on his increasingly fragile body.

On June 3rd – when Shad was still surprising everyone by how well he was doing – he and his father talked extensively about when he would be going home. His father insisted that they would leave on Saturday. But Shad – as though he knew something that no one else knew – maintained that he would not be ready to leave by Saturday… that they would return together on the Tuesday morning flight.

In the end, they were both right. Shad did leave this place today, Saturday, June 6th. And his father is scheduled to return to his home city with his son’s body on Tuesday, June 9th.

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As we stood with his father by Shad’s bedside this morning just minutes after his death, the most joyous and saddest words I’ve ever heard with my own ears were spoken by Shad’s father to his little boy. He said:

My dearest little Shad, your life on this earth was so difficult and full of sadness. But it was such a joy for me to have you here. But now your life here is over; you are in Joy and Happiness forever. But now I am the one left in difficulty and sadness without you.

You were like seven sons to me. You were like seven brothers, too. My son! My friend! What will I tell your mother? What will I tell your grandmother? My eldest boy… how can I live without you?

Xwa hafiz, Shada gyan. Xwa hafiz.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Shad in Critical Condition after Two Emergency Surgeries

June 4, 2009 by Jeremy · 4 Comments 

Ten year old Shad is back in ICU after a surprisingly wonderful night last night with his father up in their personal hospital room. Shad spoke with his dad a great deal last night about his excitement to return to Iraq, his eagerness to sit with his mom and play with his little brother and little sister, and his excitement over how many people were going to come visit him upon his return.

But if things do not turn around significantly – and fast – it looks as though many people will come to visit Shad in Iraq, but not in the way we’d all hoped and planned.

Shad’s blood does not respond well to anti-coagulants, being very viscous and subject to so many years of oxygen deficiency. Last night after a sudden bout of diarrhea it seems that Shad became dehydrated very quickly giving rise to blood clots which eventually blocked the flow of blood in his pulmonary artery. His oxygen level quickly decreased as he was rushed to the ICU.

He was quickly admitted to his third surgery in a week where doctors put him back on the “heart and lung” machine and began their third attempt at correcting years of damage.

But three hours after the surgery finished, while resting under heavy sedation in ICU, Shad went into cardiac arrest again and the doctors had to open him up in ICU and perform the fourth surgery on Shad.

As we write this (10pm, Istanbul, 06/04/09) Shad is still in critical condition but his father has lost all hope that he will pull through. Doctors are saying there is a chance, but it is clear that after ten years and four surgeries in one week the odds are severely stacked against him.

In the midst of great grief (real and anticipated) Shad’s father has been very grateful today to Dr. Çiçek, his team, the nursing staff, PLC, and ultimately to God – in whose hands are all things. He has also spent a lot of time telling us how much he has learned from his son about patience, kindness, and caring for others.

In any case, Shad was made to wait ten years too long for these surgeries. But it doesn’t have to be too late for other children in Iraq.

Shad is still alive. And so is our hope.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Better Late Than Never: Shad Comes Out of ICU!

June 2, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

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It took him longer than the rest of the kids – a direct result of so many emaciating years of lack of oxygen that has made his body too weak to cough (to clear his lungs) and move on his own. Nonetheless, Shad emerged from ICU today and is on the road to being a much healthier young man! A weight has clearly been lifted off his father’s remarkably strong shoulders…

Thanks for all you’ve done to make this new future a reality for Shad, his parents, and his little brother and sister.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Zana Plays Football Two Months After Returning From ♥ Surgery

June 2, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

In February Zana entered the Anadolu Sağlık Merkezi hospital in Istanbul, Turkey and underwent one of the most amazing, dangerous heart surgeries out there. Today, thanks to our partners at Kurdistan Save the Children, all of your kind Buy Shoes. Save Lives. purchases, and donations to PLC he is playing football like all the other kids in his neighborhood with barely a care in the world.

All these pictures are courtesy of the wonderful pro bono photographer Matt Addington and PLC’s Followthrough program, whereby we make sure that kids are not sent to surgery only to return to Iraq and be forgotten.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Heran & Shwan In Airport Headed Home After Life-Saving Surgery

June 2, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

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Things happened so fast we never even introduced you to Shwan… but 10 year old Shwan also had life-saving heart surgery this week. Heran finished strong and left the hospital in a little flower hat… Thanks for all you’ve done!

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Lawen is Receiving Life Now!

June 1, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

I just walked 16-year-old Lawen down to her cardiac catheterization procedure, where she is receiving an umbrella-like closure device inserted through the artery in her thigh to close a .55 inch hole in her atrium. This will allow her to finish school, go to college, one day marry, have kids, and grow well into adulthood.

Thanks for all of you who have contributed so graciously to Lawen’s surgery!

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Dr. Sertaç Çiçek & His Life-Saving Crew

June 1, 2009 by Jeremy · 5 Comments 

Has there ever been assembled a better group of surgeons to routinely tackle some of the most confounding heart conditions in the world? Iraqi children and all of us at the Preemptive Love Coalition are deeply grateful to this group of Turkish doctors who have given up so much this week to bring life today and peace for tomorrow.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

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