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A Fork in the Road for Ramyar: His Surgery Will Be Very Risky If We Proceed

August 28, 2009 by Jeremy 

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“Triage is the mantle of God.”

That’s what one guy reminded us when we struggled out loud with the difficulty of balancing our responsibility is to a single child – usually the one in front of us – against our responsibility to every other child out there waiting in line for life-saving heart surgery outside the country.

Today that mantle which should belong to God alone seems like it is thrust upon us once again.

It was questionable as to whether or not Ramyar would be “operable.” I guess we were hoping for a fairly black and white “go” or “no.” Instead, the medical experts have said that Ramyar is operable, but they’ve also said that it will be extremely dangerous – full of risks, extra expenses, and no guarantees – except, of course, that the post-operative course will be very long and slow.

We were hoping for a simple “go” or “no.”

We are talking with Ramyar’s family about the risks and what should be done. But the risks… and the expenses… it’s so hard to know what to do. It’s scary to think that the very surgery that was meant to bring life could more quickly bring about death. On the other hand, sitting by idly when a solution could be just on the other side of this risky ridge.

If you pray, please ask God to take His mantle back. To give some sort of insight as to what will be best for this child before us and the thousands like him waiting in line.

Follow 4-year-old Ramyar on Twitter: @ramyarjafar. Subscribe to Ramyar’s updates via RSS here. Follow Ramyar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures) on the PLC blog here.





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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

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