Danar is Fit to Fly Home on Tuesday; Takes with Him a Message of Peace
January 11, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
All of Danar’s follow-up echos and tests show that he is doing extremely well! He has been deemed “fit to fly” home to Iraq on Tuesday. And when he and his mom do make it home, they will take with them – forever take with them – a different-than-usual story about the Turks to the north of them and the Americans who came from the West to their country.
Life-saving heart surgery; life-changing experiences of “the other”; of the person different from me; of that kind of person. What difference a week can make!
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Isn’t it amazing to watch life-saving in progress? We are able to do this because thousands of people like you have given $10, $25, and $50 – or whatever they could – to impact the future of kids in Iraq. |
Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Hamma Discharged to His Private Room; Parents Finally Can Believe That Others Actually Love Them
January 9, 2010 by Jeremy · 20 Comments
I mentioned a few days ago that Hamma’s family had been swindled out of a 5 digit sum of money last year in their quest to serve their son with life-saving heart surgery when a group from a neighboring country posed as a charity took their cash and fled the country, leaving Hamma to die and the family to suffer in financial ruin. Understandably, this made Hamma’s family considerably gun shy when we started talking to them about our family participation requirement and our desire to create local solutions to local problems.
Will they take our money, too? Can they be trusted? What’s to become of us if we risk it again and this time lose our son?
Thankfully, they took the risk… and today they are reaping the joy! Hamma is out of ICU and back in his room. And – of equal importance – Hamma’s family has come to understand that we love them, as they are, for who they are; that we are not out to get them but be friends with them.
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Isn’t it amazing to watch life-saving in progress? We are able to do this because thousands of people like you have given $10, $25, and $50 – or whatever they could – to impact the future of kids in Iraq. |
Follow Hamma on Twitter: @HammaDana. Subscribe to Hamma’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Hamma’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Soma’s Surgery a Success, Lung Problems Keep Her on Machine in ICU, Chest Still Opened
January 9, 2010 by Jeremy · 21 Comments

We do not want to be unnecessarily graphic; but do want to convey the gravity of Soma’s situation right now.
Her valve was almost completely “gone” once doctors got to it on Friday, having already cooled her body temperature to 20 degree C. The valve repair went well and we met with Dr. Sertaç Çiçek in the 6th hour of the surgery as his team began warming her body back up to 36 degrees C.
One and a half hours later they came back out and told us that her lungs had some problems after taking her off the heart-and-lung machine and they decided to put her on “extracorporeal membrane oxygenation” (ECMO) - a machine that effectively assists or replaces the lungs. So her heart is pumping, but ECMO is oxygenating her blood right now.
In the consult he estimated that she had a 65-75% of surviving ICU, saying Soma is in “satisfactory, but critical condition.”
Today the ICU nurses attending to Soma said she had a great night in ICU and was “doing a little better than before.” She will almost certainly be on ECMO with few changes for the next few days. In the meantime, please pray for her lungs to heal, her heart to strengthen, and her mother to remain at peace.
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Isn’t it amazing to watch life-saving in progress? We are able to do this because thousands of people like you have given $10, $25, and $50 – or whatever they could – to impact the future of kids in Iraq. |
Follow baby Soma on Twitter: @SomaSalah. Subscribe to Soma’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Soma’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Danar Discharged to His Private Room; Mom Laughs for Joy At His New Life Ahead
January 9, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment
We’ve been on this journey with Danar and his family for a few months now. In fact, we know Danar because of a child named Honya we helped back in February 2009. But in all our history with this family, we’ve not seen smiles and happiness; openness, hope, and joy for the future like we saw today.
It’s hard to put this in to words. We trust that the smiles above convey the deep impact you’ve made on the future of Danar, his mom, his dad, their extended family, and the previously destroyed village in Iraq in which they live.
These smiles – and the depth of hope they convey – are one of the primary things we aim for in our work.
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Isn’t it amazing to watch life-saving in progress? We are able to do this because thousands of people like you have given $10, $25, and $50 – or whatever they could – to impact the future of kids in Iraq. |
Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Hamma is Extubated in ICU, Doing Extremely Well
January 9, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment
When we walked into the Cardiovascular Intensive Care unit one-year-old Hamma was crying – if you could call it crying – with little whimpers; the biggest sounds he could muster up now that the tubes have been taken out of his lungs. The stress placed on the lungs during an open heart surgery is extreme. So the hours and days after surgery are usually filled with a lot of coughing and it usually takes a while for one’s voice – or cry – to come back to full strength.
Still, after a full bottle, Hamma was so satisfied – even smiling involuntarily, like his stomach didn’t care what the rest of his body was going through!
| Part of how we are able to do this is owing to those who have committed to $25, $50, or $150 monthly sponsorships to impact the future of kids in Iraq. Could you reorganize any current spending to see more kids on here? How about becoming a monthly sponsor today? |
Follow Hamma on Twitter: @HammaDana. Subscribe to Hamma’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Hamma’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Danar Doing Well, Off Life Support in ICU
January 8, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment
Danar has been doing great and his mother is extremely relieved to see him without all the tubes and machines attached. This is one of the most critical steps for any child. This is the official move away from “critical condition.” So things are looking positive for Danar!
| Part of how we are able to do this is owing to those who have committed to $25, $50, or $150 monthly sponsorships to impact the future of kids in Iraq. Could you reorganize any current spending to see more kids on here? How about becoming a monthly sponsor today? |
Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Hamma Intubated in ICU But Proceeding According to Plan
January 8, 2010 by Jeremy · 2 Comments
Hamma is resting in ICU and is expected to be extubated within a few hours. Everything is going well but his mother is understandably disturbed by the machines and tubes protruding from her little boy. These are still critical hours…
| Part of how we are able to do this is owing to those who have committed to $25, $50, or $150 monthly sponsorships to impact the future of kids in Iraq. Could you reorganize any current spending to see more kids on here? How about becoming a monthly sponsor today? |
Follow Hamma on Twitter: @HammaDana. Subscribe to Hamma’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Hamma’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
“Take My Eyes Just Save My Child” Cries Soma’s Mom On the Way to Surgery
January 8, 2010 by Jeremy · 6 Comments
The extended deliberation and explanation about the risks of Soma’s particular surgery was not easy on Soma’s mom – or her dad by telephone back in Iraq. So when it came time to wheel her down to the operating room, emotions were running pretty high and fears were even more piqued than some of the other mothers.
Soma is in surgery right now. More to come in a few hours…
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We can do surgeries like this because hundreds of people every year give generously to cover the material costs of surgery to impact the future of kids in Iraq. |
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Soma Selected for Surgery After Days of Considering Surgery’s Potential Impact
January 8, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment

Soma is a 7 month old little girl from a small village in Iraq.

Preemptive Love Coalition’s Jeremy Courtney plays with Soma as mom awaits surgery decision.

Soma’s dad was tortured by Saddam Hussein a few years before 2003. It’s an honor to care for his child in Istanbul, Turkey while he remains with his other children in Iraq.

Difficult discussion about the post-operative course for Soma after announcing her selection for surgery.
The Preemptive Love Coalition is not a heart surgery organization. Heart surgeries come and go. You can even get a heart surgery and die because of it. Heart surgeries are not the point.
The Preemptive Love Coalition is a children’s organization. The point is impacting children’s lives. We make hard decisions every day about how we can most impact children. Sometimes that means we end up passing on children whose likelihood to benefit from surgery is actually quite small. For days now, we’ve been wondering if Soma might end up being one of those children.
But the Preemptive Love Coalition is also a hope bank – a place where Iraqi families come for a chance at a better life for their kids; a place they come for a hope transfusion. And being a people of hope has compelled us to accept Soma to surgery.
Soma will be dead in two years without surgery. If there is any error to be made with her, we want to err on the side of giving hope and a future. And this isn’t just a field decision – time and time again we’ve heard from you that this is the organization you want us to be and that this is, overwhelmingly, how you want your money spent.
Soma goes to surgery today. Stay tuned…
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The most critical factor in our decision to help Soma was our own personal presence in Iraq and our team’s commitment to ongoing followthrough with Soma’s family in their village three hours away. If you love what we do, please consider contributing to our travel and Followthrough fees to see Soma in her village.
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Follow baby Soma on Twitter: @SomaSalah. Subscribe to Soma’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Soma’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Mohammed’s Mom Waits Anxiously for Fever to Subside; Surgery Delayed until Monday
January 7, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment
A fever presented itself today in Mohammed Umed. As a precautionary measure doctors have delayed his surgery to observe and investigate what may be causing the fever. In the interim period, his mother is understandably anxious as she has now sat by while two other kids have had their chance before hers. Of course, they are all in this together, but it’s easy enough to relate to her desire to be “first” and not “last” in a critical scenario like this.
So this Kurdish mother from Iraq waits in Turkey while her husband serves as a soldier in Baghdad and the rest of her family is at home. Together we are all hoping the fever will not prove to be the result of anything serious; hoping that Mohammed’s chance at surgery is not delayed any further.
Follow Mohammed on Twitter: @MohammedUmed. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |



































