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HOPE DENIED FOR PARWA

May 17, 2010 by Jessica 

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This is not a very hopeful blog post, but one that is an everyday reality for many families in Iraq. Today I was sitting with Parwa’s family in their home when we learned she was deemed inoperable last week by an in-country diagnostic procedure. A wonderful team of American doctors came to our city last week and gave free check-ups and catheterizations (a procedure to assess how well the heart is pumping blood) to the children here. That part isn’t the infuriating part. What is infuriating is that this 11-year-old girl missed her chance at surgery; at a “normal” life – and that’s a chance she will never get again.

She should have had surgery 5-6 years ago. Even surgery one year ago may have saved her.

The hole in her heart (VSD) should not have been terminal. VSDs should not be giving death sentences to eleven-year-olds.

From the time I first met Parwa I have loved her. She is an amazing little girl, smiley and full of so much life. Unlike other children with heart problems, she isn’t blue, she goes to school, she plays with her brothers and sisters. If you saw her walking down the street you wouldn’t know that she is dying. And this is part of the problem. No one knew. No one thought to check.

This isn’t a country where most children go to the doctor for wellness checks at 2, 4, 6 months, and every year after that. This isn’t even a country where most children are born in a hospital (and those that are born in hospitals are discharged within hours in many cases without a chance to really assess much more than overt birth defects). Very few provincial doctors know how to check for these problems until it is too late.

In this case, even if they had discovered it at birth, there wouldn’t have been anything the doctors here could have done about it with the medical infrastructure such as it is.

And now it is too late for Parwa. But it is not too late for so many others. Days like today push me forward to walk into more homes and doctors offices and help these little ones who need help now.

Parwa isn’t the only child I saw today. I saw Bawar, a precious two-year-old going to surgery in July, playing outside with his older sister and brother. I also visited Yousif and his ten siblings in their small village house, complete with cows and chickens outside. Bawar and Yousif still have a chance. They are urgent and need surgery quickly. And the best news is that the only thing standing in the way is money. Their parents understand their problems, which led them to appeal to us for help to get to Turkey for their surgeries before it’s too late. Now we are just waiting on the funds.

Can you help?

We plan to send Bawar, Yahya, Leah, Nivar and possibly a few others to surgery on July 18, 2010. All donations will be used to cover their airfare, housing, food, and surgical expenses.






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Jessica Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Family Services Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. She is also a mother of two children and is married to PLC's Executive Director, Jeremy Courtney. When not absorbed in caring for Iraqi children and sharing life with Iraqi families, she enjoys sewing and scrapbooking.

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