Family Advocate Connecting with a Two-year-old Waiting for Heart Surgery
July 11, 2010 by Sophia
On a house visit last week I noticed Chro’s tiny bright-pink fingernails and toenails as she sat squeamishly on her father’s lap. Chro is one of five children going to surgery on July 18.
Her father is a policeman, a civil servant in charge of protecting their village; but right now he is focused on protecting his little girl by sending her to surgery. At 2 years old, Chro is battling the heart disease inside her chest.
As I sat with her family on the knit rugs that lined their living room floor, Chro’s eyes anxiously looked around. She started to whimper a faint cry because her lungs can hardly provide enough oxygen for the deep breaths that are required to shed many tears.
She was scared.
I could only imagine what might be going through Chro’s head. She is a little girl, who will soon be getting on a plane and flying to a foreign country only to have her small heart cut open and restored. Can she possibly grasp the magnitude of lifesaving heart surgery? I cannot possibly understand what it feels like to be a scared two-year-old with shortness of breath and probing doctors.
After I asked Chro’s family about her likes, her mother, a sturdy Kurdish woman with a protruding pregnant belly, smiled and said, “Dolls, lollipops and ice cream.”
I realized that Chro is a normal little girl. In spite of facing a disease that threatens to take her life, she is a little girl who likes lollipops, rainbows, baby dolls and bright pink. I think we have more in common than I first thought.
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| Sophia Pappas, a PLC summer intern ('10), is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |














