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How I Botched Mother’s Day (and how you can avoid making the same mistake!)

April 29, 2011 by matt · Leave a Comment 

If you were to judge me solely by the gifts I gave my mother on Mother’s Day, well, I’d be in serious trouble. I put a paltry amount of effort into Mother’s Day.

I’d get Dad to drive me over to the mall, buy the first mom-ish looking thing I found, and then drag it out from under my bed on Mother’s Day (usually with the price tag on and still inside the store bag).

It’s as if to say, “You suffered me into existence, gave me a body that works. You cooked, cleaned, wiped and worked so that someday I could grow up and live well… here’s some scented antibacterial soap.”

It’s universally understood that no one can repay their mother – we all get that – but they can certainly put more thought and care into Mother’s Day than I did.

Luckily for you, we’re making that extremely easy for you to do this Mother’s Day. We’re offering a gift that will show your mother you care about her and about hardworking women like her around the world.

Our friends at Prosperity Candle are selling candles made by moms in Iraq. The profits from each candle sale are going toward providing a living wage for these hardworking women in distressed areas of Iraq and a percentage of sales will go toward children’s heart surgeries.

Helping save the lives of Iraqi children and providing jobs for Iraqi women makes this the perfect opportunity for you to get Mom a Mother’s Day gift that has meaning beyond the mall. Click HERE to bless her and mothers and children in Iraq this Mother’s Day!

As PLC's Press Secretary, Matt Willingham writes, reads, edits, tweets, updates, and works with a camera so as to connect hearts and minds to Iraqi children in need. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up and exploring DSLR work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Sweet, Sweet Honey

April 27, 2011 by matt · 1 Comment 

Baby Honey in her traditional Kurdish clothes.

Baby Honey loves to dance. It’s like she can’t keep her toes and feet from wiggling. The above photo was actually taken right after she tipped over during a performance.

And this dancing is more than just adorable, it’s a good sign. Honey’s heart problem was complicated, but she’s gained a lot of strength since her surgery and we’re pleased with her progress! We look forward to many more dance performances in the future!

As PLC's Press Secretary, Matt Willingham writes, reads, edits, tweets, updates, and works with a camera so as to connect hearts and minds to Iraqi children in need. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up and exploring DSLR work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Parzheen is doing great, and we’re stuffed!

April 25, 2011 by Cody · 1 Comment 

A Kurdish feast in celebration of Parzheen's successful surgery!

If you’d have been in Iraq this week, you would have been invited to this feast.

It was a feast celebrating another healthy heart from our most recent Remedy Mission in northern Iraq.

Parzheen and her family invited us to come for a medical checkup and to see the rest of the family, including Parzheen’s grandparents and to spend a day with them in their village. All of this was to thank YOU for saving the life of their daughter!

It was a perfect day. Together with Parzheen and her family we filled the village with laughter as we filled ourselves with the most delicious Kurdish food.

Everything around their home was in full bloom. The turkey’s were gobbling. The chickens were out searching for worms. The garden was beginning to show signs of life. Parzheen was outside playing and keeping up with all of her brothers and sisters, things she couldn’t do before her heart surgery.

It was all perfect and we left Parzheen with a check up that was just as perfect. She’s doing great!

Our Followthrough Program is gaining momentum as we continue to see children each week that were served during our last Remedy. Stay tuned to see more of the stories you’ve forever changed!

On behalf of Parzheen, her family and all of us at PLC, thank you for saving her life!

Cody Fisher is the co-founder and Development Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He moved to Iraq in 2007 where he met his wife and since then they've been waging peace and mending hearts across Iraq. His passions are photography, peacemaking, and food that doesn't come out of a can. You can follow him on Twitter: @candmfisher.

Leah’s Story Exemplefies The Need For Followthrough

April 22, 2011 by Cayla · 1 Comment 

As a new member of the PLC team, there’s always something to learn. One of the first things on the to-learn list was how to answer the question, “What’s your job?” in Kurdish. I usually use the term ‘social worker’ to describe what I do, so I asked my language tutor how to say that in Kurdish and she explained that there isn’t a word for it because there isn’t really a job like that in our city.

Because women tend to stay home, the need for a family advocate/social worker to come to them is huge. Unfortunately the need isn’t widely seen, and in many homes even basic healthcare knowledge is lacking.

Last week I went with our family services director, Jessica Courtney, to visit Leah, one of the children who received surgery in March. Jessica was there in the ICU to help Leah’s mom understand the importance of a feeding tube and, for the second time, I got to see her comfort and inform this worried mother about medicines, dosages and how to help her child recover.

Hospital trips and caring for a sick child can be fearful times, and mothers need someone they can rely on. We hope to be that for them.

Leah’s mother wouldn’t have understood the urgency of a feeding tube or her baby’s need for consistent medication if Jessica hadn’t been there.

This is why we Followthrough.

Cayla Willingham is a Family Advocate in PLC's Followthrough program. When she isn't spending time with families, she enjoys cooking up amazing food, hosting friends, haggling at the bazaar, and learning Kurdish.

April 20, 2011 by matt · 1 Comment 

Ready to box

This incredible photo by Newsha Tavakolian.

As PLC's Press Secretary, Matt Willingham writes, reads, edits, tweets, updates, and works with a camera so as to connect hearts and minds to Iraqi children in need. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up and exploring DSLR work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Followthrough Is Central To Why We Choose To Live In Country

April 18, 2011 by matt · Leave a Comment 

People had a lot of questions when my wife and I said we wanted to move to Iraq. Family and friends were (understandably) concerned, and we had to be ready with a response about our work, our safety, and pretty much everything else involved in moving to a wartorn country.

Most questions weren’t difficult to answer. Some were difficult for people to hear, for sure, but we knew our responses.

But there was one question that took some thinking. An older man (in front of a crowd of 200 people, I might add) asked, “Why can’t you just facilitate the surgeries from the United States? Why do you have to live there?” I remember fidgeting a little and saying something about the importance of caring and equipping in-person.

If I had another shot at answering that question, though, I wouldn’t fidget: Followthrough would be my answer.

If we’re going to put an end to this backlog of sick children, it’s going to take the daily training, equipping and relationship-building of our Followthrough team.

We could certainly live stateside. It’d probably make fundraising easier, and we could swoop into Iraq like whites in shining armor, save a whole bunch of lives and then make our grand exit.

But that would be more about us than about what the people of Iraq are actually asking for.

Many of Iraq’s best and brightest either fled or were killed under Saddam Hussein’s regime, and subsequently the nation as a whole suffered a massive braindrain. So what Iraqis need, is training, information, and empowerment to restore their country to what it once was (and beyond!), and that’s where Followthrough comes in.

We aren’t handing out prescriptions and orders, but we are here if they have any questions – and they have a lot! How to bathe a child post-op, which medications to take, how to avoid an infection, and if/when they should go in for post-op checkups are just a few of the many questions parents are asking.

But the medical training is just one part of it all. We want to know the people we’re working with and to understand them; their worldview, their joys, their concerns, beliefs and fears.

Followthrough is our way of saying no to life in the proverbial ivory tower and yes to an in-the-flesh kind of compassion that ultimately blesses and benefits us as we’re working to bless and benefit the people of Iraq.

Photo credit: Tech Trends

As PLC's Press Secretary, Matt Willingham writes, reads, edits, tweets, updates, and works with a camera so as to connect hearts and minds to Iraqi children in need. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up and exploring DSLR work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Kurdish Book Salesman

April 13, 2011 by matt · Leave a Comment 

Kurdish children's book salesment

As PLC's Press Secretary, Matt Willingham writes, reads, edits, tweets, updates, and works with a camera so as to connect hearts and minds to Iraqi children in need. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up and exploring DSLR work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Cedarville Is At It Again!

April 12, 2011 by Cody · 2 Comments 

Cedarville University is starting off the month of April by hosting their sixth annual Baseball Classic in Ohio where they hope to fund four heart surgeries by the ninth inning!

Cedarville continues to be one of our most loyal partners in doing good in Iraq. In 2008 their student body raised $30,000, making this a total of nine Iraqi children they’ve helped save!

This Friday, April 15th, at 7 PM, the Cedarville Yellow Jackets are taking on Urbana Blue Nights at Fifth Third Field in Dayton, Ohio.

If you’re in the area, tickets are only $5 and you’ll get the chance to see some great baseball and help save the lives of four children in Iraq!

Get more information by clicking HERE!

GO YELLOW JACKETS!

Cody Fisher is the co-founder and Development Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He moved to Iraq in 2007 where he met his wife and since then they've been waging peace and mending hearts across Iraq. His passions are photography, peacemaking, and food that doesn't come out of a can. You can follow him on Twitter: @candmfisher.

Intro To Followthrough: How Mothers Will Change The Tide In Iraq

April 8, 2011 by Cody · 1 Comment 

Focusing in on Heran and her mother

We’re all about providing surgeries to children – I think we’ve made that pretty clear – but we’re also passionate about getting the rest of the family involved.

That means we aren’t standing by an entire generation of children with CHD but also the communities, the support groups, and the leaders who play a crucial role in improving local healthcare throughout the country.

Without a doubt, some of Iraq’s strongest leaders are the mothers.

They’re leading the way by asking real questions about proper nutrition, pre-natal care, post-op rehabilitation for their children, the causes of heart defects, and how they can be a part of the solution. They aren’t content to be bystanders.

And these questions are encouraging, because they prove that mothers here see that something’s wrong, and they want to do something about it.

That’s why our Followthrough program is seeking to unite mothers all over Iraq and give them the tools they need to be the remedy. Then, once they’ve been equipped, we set them loose to pass it on to the next mother.

‘Equipping’ here means educating them on the value of healthcare, what robust nutrition looks like here with the available foods in Iraq, how to look after children with heart disease, and how all of this will help lower the rate of children born with heart defects each year.

Educating and empowering mothers to better care for their children is the first step toward attacking this CHD problem at the source.

We want them to know that it doesn’t take a PhD to fight heart disease. We all can play a role.

Imagine women all over Iraq, representing multiple ethnicities, faiths, and tribes, all united together with the common goal – to create a better future for their children!

Stick with us during the coming weeks to see how moms are changing the tide in Iraq!

Cody Fisher is the co-founder and Development Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He moved to Iraq in 2007 where he met his wife and since then they've been waging peace and mending hearts across Iraq. His passions are photography, peacemaking, and food that doesn't come out of a can. You can follow him on Twitter: @candmfisher.

Under Construction

April 6, 2011 by matt · 2 Comments 

A construction worker looks out from a tower at Sulaymaniyah, Iraq.

I was invited by a friend to check out Sulaymaniyah’s newest condominium complex. The above picture is of a Kurdish construction worker overlooking our city from 26 floors up – quite high for around here! New building projects like this are sprouting up each month as investors continue pouring into the region.

As PLC's Press Secretary, Matt Willingham writes, reads, edits, tweets, updates, and works with a camera so as to connect hearts and minds to Iraqi children in need. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up and exploring DSLR work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

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