Neighbors
May 18, 2011 by Cayla · Leave a Comment
I love the spring, and I’m not the only one. Doors are open, people are out, the neighborhood comes alive. Our neighbors aren’t afraid to let life spill onto the street.
This morning when I left for the office there were boys rollerblading around me and a cluster of women reaching into the grape trees for leaves to make yaprax, a traditional Kurdish dish.
As a newcomer to the neighborhood, I get excited about the opportunities that come with the cool breezes and the sunshine, and I’m reminded of how fortunate we are to live and work among the people here.
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Cayla Willingham is a Family Advocate in PLC's Followthrough program. When she isn't spending time with families, she enjoys cooking up amazing food, hosting friends, haggling at the bazaar, and learning Kurdish. |
Leah’s Story Exemplefies The Need For Followthrough
April 22, 2011 by Cayla · 1 Comment
As a new member of the PLC team, there’s always something to learn. One of the first things on the to-learn list was how to answer the question, “What’s your job?” in Kurdish. I usually use the term ‘social worker’ to describe what I do, so I asked my language tutor how to say that in Kurdish and she explained that there isn’t a word for it because there isn’t really a job like that in our city.
Because women tend to stay home, the need for a family advocate/social worker to come to them is huge. Unfortunately the need isn’t widely seen, and in many homes even basic healthcare knowledge is lacking.
Last week I went with our family services director, Jessica Courtney, to visit Leah, one of the children who received surgery in March. Jessica was there in the ICU to help Leah’s mom understand the importance of a feeding tube and, for the second time, I got to see her comfort and inform this worried mother about medicines, dosages and how to help her child recover.
Hospital trips and caring for a sick child can be fearful times, and mothers need someone they can rely on. We hope to be that for them.
Leah’s mother wouldn’t have understood the urgency of a feeding tube or her baby’s need for consistent medication if Jessica hadn’t been there.
This is why we Followthrough.
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Cayla Willingham is a Family Advocate in PLC's Followthrough program. When she isn't spending time with families, she enjoys cooking up amazing food, hosting friends, haggling at the bazaar, and learning Kurdish. |
Fighting for Families
December 8, 2009 by Cayla · Leave a Comment
When a child is chosen for surgery, their family is adopted by a member of the PLC team. This person makes it their goal to do whatever is necessary to defend the family in this time of vulnerability. They are the family advocate.
The care offered to the family goes far beyond a healthy heart. When I visited the team in Iraq a month ago, I was able to see this care first hand on various home visits I made with PLC’s family advocates.
Here are some examples of what I saw:
- Honya went to Istanbul for surgery in November. Her advocate sat with her parents to explain what the process would be like and what to expect in the hospital.
- Heran needs a follow-up surgery but must gain weight before that’s possible. Her advocate has been visiting weekly, checking her weight and encouraging her closer to this goal.
- Taban has completely recovered from her surgery but lacks motivation in school. Her advocate met with the school board, persuaded them to let her enroll, and continues to support her education.
- Zana has also been doing well, but his mother was keeping him from school for fear he would turn up sick again. After some reassurance, she allowed him to begin his studies.
- Shwana has fully recovered and is doing great, but others in his family are still in need. His family advocate is in the process of acquiring a wheelchair for his disabled cousin and was able to give helpful exercises to his grandma who recently had a stroke.
PLC does so much more than just heart surgeries; they truly care for the Iraqi people and work to show them that they matter. I was astounded to see how much is invested in the lives of the children and their families and how big of a difference it really makes.
HELP PLC IN THEIR ADVOCACY ON BEHALF OF IDREES BY GIVING TO HIS SURGERY IN HONOR OF A FRIEND BELOW:
| Idrees is slated for surgery in January 2010. PLC will be collecting money for his life-saving surgery throughout the Thanksgiving and Christmas season. What a chance to make a profound difference in the life of a child and his family! | ||||
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GIVING IN HONOR OF ANOTHER
In honor of a friend or family member, donate the amount of your choice to fund a January surgery for Idrees by entering it in the field below. PLC will send you a Christmas card about Idrees along with a Preemptive Love Coalition “Hope for the Holidays” magnet as a physical expression of your gift on behalf of another.
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Cayla Willingham is a Family Advocate in PLC's Followthrough program. When she isn't spending time with families, she enjoys cooking up amazing food, hosting friends, haggling at the bazaar, and learning Kurdish. |









