Preemptive Love and Prosperity Candle Working to Combat Social Injustice in Their Communities
July 8, 2010 by Joshua · 2 Comments
Luma.
Wafa.
Arib.
Nezhet.
Ibtisam.
These names represent five of the strongest women I have ever met.
These women are actively standing in rebellion against a social system in Baghdad which works to suppress them — a system which imposes and restricts. It was truly an honor to meet them, to talk to them, to laugh with them, to grieve the death and pain of this war with them, to share tea with them. And it is an honor to now call them friends.
Working for Prosperity Candle, an organization which employs women from conflict areas, these women are empowered to break beyond the veil of oppression working to smother them and to whole-handedly take their lives back from the powers who have fought to rob them.
Making candles subverts this. It screams in the face of oppression. It fights back against a male-dominated culture that identifies women as less useful, as less valuable. Making candles, in my opinion, has never been more powerful.
It would be impossible to explain their mission better than they have themselves:
“Our vision is bold – we imagine a world lit by millions of points of candlelight, each reflecting the resilience and courage of women who have survived inconceivable hardship and seek to create a better future.”
(taken from the Prosperity Candle website)

I love the language of a world lit by millions of candles each radiating the soft light of its wick and releasing into the air the stories of widows, of children lost, of hope amidst pain and of love amid war.
Operating in Baghdad, perhaps the world’s epicenter of extremism and violence, these women will not be intimidated into inactivity. They are strong. And they will continue to share their stories with the world with each candle produced. Their stories are painful, bringing stinging tears and causing me to grieve the sin of this world and the misery it brings to so many. These are stories of love robbed by bombs, of hope shattered by shrapnel, of bitter pain and of a deep, lasting sorrow.
Because of the nature of our work in Iraq, the Preemptive Love Coalition intentionally connects with others who share a common vision, whether or not we are fully capable of incorporating it into our mission. Prosperity Candle is one of these groups, and it has been a joy to partner with them.
Our shared longing for social justice among disadvantaged people groups is what drew us to partner with them for peace and equality in this region. Just as we are concerned with giving children the opportunity for new life, Prosperity Candle strives to give these women and others like them the ability to work independently in their communities. It is that shared concern for humanity that unifies our visions to stand in a hostile place, and become advocates for justice.
After seeing a video produced by PLC’s director Jeremy Courtney, Prosperity Candle contacted us in the hopes of having a video filmed of these women and their work. Last weekend, after finalizing details with Jeremy and Heber Vega, a dear photographer friend of ours, we finally hosted our new friends from Baghdad. I was there to photograph and help Jeremy and Heber with their work, but mainly to just sit and talk with the women.
Since then, I have struggled to write my thoughts. I’ve sat down, stood up, taken walks, come back to the computer and still feel it is impossible to fully write in such a way that will give you an adequate understanding of these women — or perhaps an adequate expression of my own thoughts.
Why has this weekend with them so affected me? Why will this weekend with women from Baghdad be one of the highlights of my time in this country?
As I’ve spent dedicated time reflecting on these questions, I think a facet of these strong emotions is rooted in my my heartfelt love for reconciliation and peace. These women, for many reasons, should not like me.
Even now, I’m shocked by the chill that last sentence brings to me.
Given who I am, where I am from, and what my country has done to the people of their community, these women should have taken their aggression, their frustration and their anger out on me, the American. But they did not. And it has deeply affected me.
There is still much to write about, still much of their stories to tell.

This has been the easy part to write; the parts that have driven me to tears are still untold.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
Photo the Day
July 7, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment

This is Freedom Park, a place of joy and laughter in a region once dominated by suppression and the crippling fear of Saddam Hussein. With the western clothes of this roller-blading man, the ipod, and the young men and women mingling on the sides – this photo represents the freedom so many have worked hard to achieve.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
Visiting Honya Sparked Memories and Joy in Preemptive Love Staff
June 8, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment
Since the first day I met this girl – that first day when her parents took her from the hospital and brought her to our office with her bloody I.V. still in hand – she has been a favorite of mine. Alright, I know I’m probably not supposed to have favorites in this work, but I do. And Honya is one of them. I’ll never forget that first time we met last September.
I so clearly remember my thoughts – how afraid her parents seemed; how this tiny bundle in a mother’s arms seemed too delicate to be human; how the faded blood on her bandages seemed to match her shirt perfectly; how I thought this girl would never be sent to surgery, given her fragility.

Well, I was wrong. And in being so proven, I have grown irreversibly attached to her.
Honya was the first child I traveled with to surgery. In the Iraqi airport as her father waved goodbye, watching his wife and only daughter leave the country for the first time, I saw a foreshadowing of the emotional days ahead. The fears, the tension, the waiting, the unknowns – it was impossible to go through these things with them and not be drawn close to her and her family.
Honya won my heart. This tiny girl with a body in need of repair – this innocent, beautiful young child – had captured me. Praise God the surgery was successful and that Honya has had her life restored to her, perhaps relieving my heart as much as her parents’. She has been home now for seven months and is doing great! We recently heard she was sick and was taken to our local hospital. So, I went with Awara and Jessica to visit her and her family to make sure she was doing well.
What can I possibly write that is not better expressed through photographs?
Could I express her smile in words, or just show you? Could I write of her growth, of her energy, and her pinkness; or just show photographs? Could I write of the transformation of this little girl from a tiny baby in the arms of a fearful mother, or just show you her smile as she runs down the halls? Could I write of how her little eyes melt my heart, or just let you see them?


| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
Nivar Plays Soccer in Iraq and is Reminded Daily of Her Need for Surgery
May 29, 2010 by Joshua · 1 Comment


From the day I first met her in our office, what I remember most are her eyes. In the land of dark skin and eyes to match, Nivar and her hopeful, green eyes separate themselves from the rest.
Nivar is a young girl who feels the effects of her heart defects, a girl who is reminded daily of her need for surgery. Unlike some of our kids, who can live lives without many outward signs of their inward battle, the results of her defect is evident.
I went with Awara to visit Nivar and her family in the volatile Iraqi city of Chamchamal and was again reminded how I hate seeing the innocent suffer. While Awara stayed inside to talk with her family, I was outside with Nivar and her brother, playing with their futbol, as has become the norm.

We started to kick it around, allowing the futbol to distract us from the pain of this situation. We forgot about thoughts of her failing heart; that she was different from me and her brother. We forgot this until Nivar walked away from us and lied down on their swing.
At first, I wasn’t sure what to make of this. Did she just not like futbol? Did she not like me?! What was it? I asked her to come back and play with us, and she quietly replied, “Natwanim, helakim” (I can’t. I’m tired).
Then it hit me. She really couldn’t keep playing. Her heart couldn’t handle it. She had no choice but to sit and rest.

And this is when I again started to grieve. What did Nivar do wrong? I long for restoration, when bodies no longer fail; when children no longer fear their hearts; when all is made right. I look into Nivar’s strikingly green, innocent eyes and need someone to blame.
This isn’t fair; it isn’t right. I am weary of child after child being brought to us by hopeful parents, praying to God we can save their son or daughter. Today, I just need someone to blame.
Is this Saddam’s fault, like so many claim? The chemical attacks, the gassing of thousands, the testing of primitive nerve gas agents on abducted Kurds − is this all his fault?
Those bombs he dropped; those slow-falling bombs filled with chemicals designed to savagely destroy all things living − what about those? Can I blame them? Are they the root of these issues? Did those weapons ever realize their deadly poison would be seeping their way into the heart of a little girl named Nivar years later?
Could Saddam have looked into these green eyes and continued to follow through with his attacks?
Many say it’s his fault. There’s no way to say it conclusively. Today, needing someone to blame, I blame Saddam. But even this is not complete.
No, we must go further than Saddam. For even he was driven by something. I can blame only sin. As a follower of GOD, I grieve the effects of our rebellion. I acknowledge these things also break GOD’s heart, and I long for things to be restored. I come to GOD hopeful, believing his promises that he loves his children, like Nivar, far more than I am ever able to.
And so, I hope.
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SEND NIVAR TO SURGERY! Nivar has a four-fold set of heart defects known as Tetralogy of Fallot. At eight years old her growth has been stunted by lack of oxygen in her blood and subsequent lack of energy, activity, etc. But a total corrective surgery can still free her up for on-time development as she moves into her ninth birthday in September. Her father has gathered $3,500 from savings, friends, and family to help send Nivar to surgery! We need less than $2,000 to send her in July! Donate the amount of your choice below to get her on her way! |
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| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
“There are Few Things More Satisfying” – Reviewing a Year of Family Advocacy in Iraq
May 27, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment

For those of you who have been following our blog this last year, you’ll remember this little guy! We went to visit him last summer in Chamchamal (the border city of Kirkuk) to talk through what was, at that point, his prospective surgery. Well, he had his surgery this past November and he’s doing great! We went to visit him the other day to check up on him and to visit with the family. Man, I love this little guy!

There’s something really beautiful about being here for a longer period of time− longer than the two-month summer internship which first brought me here in 2009. Now, almost a year later, I feel much more like a father, or an older brother, to these kids. I’m with them when they’re sick. I’m in their homes. I see them off to surgery. I welcome them home when their hearts are no longer broken. But what’s really important to me is that I watch them grow up, watch them as they live out the lives their repaired hearts now afford them. Kids like Danar really hit me.
He’s one of the ones I’ve been able to track the entire time. I was there when his family first brought him to our office. And I was there when we first visited his home.



And now, I’m here as he grows up finally able to do the things his heart once prevented him from doing. And there are few things more satisfying than this! I am part of a coalition. The coalition is not just the people in Iraq; it’s all our supporters. We’re all doing it. I am here because of our shared vision for the future of Iraq and on behalf of the Danars of this country.

The ability to track these kids through the whole process pushes me on − to see them back in their homes running and jumping after their hearts have healed. This is why we work.
For more information on how we plan to create this sort of impact in the lives of 30 children this August, please click to learn more about our Remedy Mission – a team of surgeons, doctors, and nurses we’re bringing into Iraq to perform surgeries and training this August.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
Adventuresaurus Collective – Advocates of the Week
May 19, 2010 by Joshua · 1 Comment

Meet Kelly Nowels and the Adventursaurus Collective.
Ironically, I’m introducing to you to the very one who introduced me to the Preemptive Love Coalition. Kelly and I both went to Cedarville University where, given the small nature of the campus, we eventually met. I remember him one day wearing a shirt that caught my eye. It read very simply: Buy Shoes. Save Lives.
I was intrigued. I asked him what it was about and it was then I first heard about the work of the organization I find myself working with today.
Kelly and two friends – Sammy Starr and Michael Beight – are preparing to bike through Europe to raise money to save the life of Mohammad Fwad. It’s a pretty big undertaking, so we were eager to name them our ADVOCATES OF THE WEEK. Here is my interview with Kelly:
PLC: Who is Kelly Nowels?
Kelly Nowels: I’m an ordinary man but I have an extraordinary maker.
PLC: What is the Adventuresaurus Collective?
Kelly Nowels: The Adventuresaurus Collective formed in the spring of 2009 when Sammy, Michael, and myself started brainstorming our next big adventure. We would ride our bikes down to the town bakery every week and eat doughnuts and muffins while we dreamed of the possibilities. We joined together because we couldn’t stand the thought of living an ordinary life. We wanted to squeeze all the energy out of youth and smear today on our faces until the stories run down to our feet and the setting sun is extinguished by the distant mountains.
The cool thing was, as soon as we decided we were going to ride bikes across Europe, that was it. There was no uncertainty about our commitment. Nobody said “well that sounds fun let me check my schedule.” It was more like, “Yes we’re going, done. I’ll build my schedule around this.”
This journey will be our first official project, but we’ve had plenty of adventures together before. Sammy and I have camped at the bottom of the Grand Canyon in a thunderstorm and driven across the country in a car with a broken window. For New Years eve the three of us ventured to the eastern-most point in Maine, shot fireworks over the ocean, slept in a collapsed tent under six inches of snow and woke up for the sunrise.
Michael Beight is [the] thoughtful and resourceful member of the group. I love his easygoing nature about things. Sleeping on park benches doesn’t faze him and I think I’ve never heard him complain about the circumstances, even when they might be pretty crummy. Mike worked 12 hour graveyard shifts at a factory last summer to save up for this trip. A picture of the Alps taped up at his work station was sometimes the only thing keeping him going. I can’t get enough of Mike’s enthusiasm.
Sammy Starr is our wonderful engineer friend. He’s the kind of guy who makes you mad because he’s good at everything he picks up. Sammy might come off as shy but don’t let the quietness fool you. His wit is razor sharp and his subtle humor has had the whole room laughing more than a few times. I love Sammy because he’s always up for a scenic detour. Take the long way round to see Devil’s Tower? [Y]es. Stop at an overlook to see an epic view of the Grand Tetons? Absolutely. Of the 43 states I’ve been to, I’ve been to 35 of them with Sammy.
PLC: Why choose the Preemptive Love Coalition?
Kelly Nowels: It’s an investment in the future. To me it’s like a man who plants a tree. An Oak tree takes 50 years to reach full size. The man who plants it won’t get to enjoy it, even his kids won’t be able to climb it, it will be too small. But his grandchildren will see the benefit. They’ll hang a swing from its branch and climb to the top. That Oak tree might live 500 years and generations of kids will enjoy its shade but the man who planted it never lived to see the fruition of his work.
With every kid the PLC saves, they’re planting little trees. Who knows how those trees are going to grow up or if any of us are even going to live to see their fulfillment? Each kid who lives grows up with a story of peace and love. It would be great to see those stories outlive us.
PLC: How did you first learn about the Preemptive Love Coalition?
Kelly Nowels: A couple years ago I found myself at Cody Fisher’s first gathering for PLC in California after he returned from Iraq. I was struck by the way PLC was showing love on a personal scale to these children and their families while spreading the message of peace on a global scale. Cody was fresh from his trip to Iraq and really fired up. I was inspired to see a recent graduate engage his world and dream big. I knew I wanted to be that fired up about something after college too.
I love the way PLC encourages people to think outside the box and get creative. It’s all about doing what you love and doing it for the kingdom [of God]. You want to ride bicycles across Europe? Sail around the world? Climb Everest? Good. Go do it to save a kid’s life.
PLC: How has your news to bike across Europe for the children of Iraq been received by friends, family, local news, etc?
Kelly Nowels: It’s been great for the most part. I love seeing people come out of the woodwork finding ways to get involved. It’s so encouraging. Our families are behind us, churches, and dear friends… with that, we can do anything.
The other thing is we get a lot of people saying “I wish I could do that” or “I’m so jealous.” And I always want to say “then do it!” Seriously, I don’t think there’s as much holding us back as we think there is. Trade a little of that comfort for experience, trade some of that security for a risk, trade that new TV for a plane ticket, and see what you end up with. I doubt it will be regret.
PLC: What would you say to Mohammad if he asked why you were helping him?
Kelly Nowels: “You are loved. There is so much bad in this world but your creator is good. He saved my life and I want him to save yours. You are living in the middle of a spectacular story. I want you to have a shot at living long enough to share that story with everybody you meet. Together we’ll create a story that will change hearts and minds and bring peace and love to a broken world.”
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Donate the amount of your choice by entering it in the field below. All donations will help send Mohammad (and any others in his group) to life-saving heart surgery. We did not choose this picture to make you sad… it’s just the only picture we could capture of Mohammad during his recent trip to our office in Iraq and he wasn’t very happy that day. We hope to post more pictures soon! |
You can learn more about the Adventuresaurus Collective at their website on on Twitter.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
“They Even Have to Borrow Their Toys”: Family Advocacy in Iraq
May 18, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment

Yousif is a six year old boy in need of heart surgery. He lives in a small village about three hours from our office in Iraq. Like so many of the children we meet, Yousif is slowly dying from a hole in his heart and his family has come to us for help. We are hoping to provide him with surgery this fall, and so today Jessica, Awara and I took a trip to visit with them, assess their family situation, and discuss details of his prospective surgery.

After being greeted at the door by the parents and eight of their ten children, we were brought inside and were overwhelmed with greetings and welcomes. Home visits are one of my favorite parts of working here but it’s always hard to sit in a living room when so many kids stand right outside the window waiting to play! I usually excuse myself from these meetings to go play with the kids.
I’ve learned through past home visits that the best way to connect with these kids is through a soccer ball, so I asked if they want to play. But these kids just looked down to the ground, and told me with sad faces they didn’t have one. I think their sadness was rooted partly in disappointing their guest, but also in a sincere desire for a soccer ball of their own.
So there we were – all eight of us – standing awkwardly by the door, until an older sister grabbed Yousif, carried him to the swing, and told me, “OK! OK!” while motioning for me to take his photo. I couldn’t help but laugh.
I’m not sure why – maybe because I hoped the answer had changed in the last 30 seconds – but I asked again if they had a soccer ball. This time Yousif ran to the gate and disappeared outside, leaving me a bit confused. He came back with a huge smile on his face and presented me with a prize: the neighbor’s soccer ball.
They even need to borrow their toys.
I shared in his joy, smiled with him, and put my camera down to begin forming soccer teams. This, however, was unacceptable for one of the sisters, that I would put my camera on their dusty ground. With such respect, she picked it up and held it for me. I was struck by her kindness. I taught her how to use it, and she stayed on the sidelines, perfectly content to photograph our game on a make-shift field of rocks, mud and roots.
This was the breaking point – the point of home visits I so love. I was no longer just the foreigner, just the person to gaze at and offer their heartfelt service and respect. I was a friend. (Or to those not on my team, the big guy they had to stop from scoring!) Either way, a bond had formed and we played and played in the heat until our faces dripped with sweat and mud and dirt covered our shoes, laughing as our silly game of soccer progressed.


Luckily for our team, I was called back inside for tea right after we gave up four goals in a row. We paused the game. Jessica and Awara finished up their conversations with the parents, and we got up to leave. This was by far, one of the best home visits I’ve been on. I love these kids already, and cant wait to visit them again.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
Bawar Plays Football While We Visit Inside About His Much Needed Heart Surgery
May 13, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment

It looks like we found Bawar in time… still playing football! But before his window of time runs out, we plan on taking him to a much needed heart surgery in Istanbul, Turkey.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
PHOTO OF THE DAY: Baby Lawen In Our Office This Morning Seeking Surgery
May 10, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment
Doesn’t this girl just make you smile?
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |
Baby Honya’s last day in the Hospital Before Going Home to Daddy
November 16, 2009 by Joshua · 953 Comments

Its been no secret we think this little baby is adorable. And we know you do, too. I mean c’mon, look at this girl.
This is harder than it should be though.
We know its not the way this is supposed to be….we’re supposed to be excited about seeing her leave, going home to her family, back to normal life….but we’re going to miss seeing her each day!
Today, she is well rested and smiling a lot. Today, we are praising God for a successful surgery and the new life that has been given. In fact, today we’re grateful for our Followthrough program and the fact that we will continue to see this little girl grow up into the hope & future that has been provided for her.
And we’re grateful for you… because without you we could not have made this happen!
Follow 9-month-old Honya on Twitter: @honyamahdi. Subscribe to Honya’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Honya’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
| Joshua Gigliotti is a PLC Summer Intern ('09) turned short-term staff who spends a majority of his time with PLC taking exceptional photos of children in Iraq in an effort to humanize Iraqis and portray them as people full of dreams and hope. When his camera is not in-hand, Josh is often found in local tea houses with friends and also enjoys traversing the great outdoors. Follow Joshua on Twitter: @JoshGigs. |









