An Update on Sozyar, Five Months After Surgery
July 12, 2010 by Sophia · Comments Off

At last week’s home visit, two-year-old Sozyar puckered her lips and blew me a kiss as I was walking out the door.
Sozyar, who has a much more delayed development and a much longer medical history chart than most other children her age, is doing remarkably well given where she was less than half a year ago. When Sozyar went to surgery in February, she only knew how to lie down and bat her big, beautiful eyes. Now, five months later, she has grown tremendously and is attempting to pull herself up and crawl. If she continues developing at this rate it won’t be long until she is walking!
With a healthy appetite (she ate from everyone else’s dishes at lunch) and a feistiness for asserting herself, she has begun to reach milestones in her recovery.
| Sophia is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |
Yahya – One Week Before Surgery
July 12, 2010 by Sophia · Comments Off

The hot desert sun beams down upon wreckage from the days of Saddam’s rule; and big houses, now broken down into cement blocks, line the dusty streets.
A modest white home is nestled in the midst of the rubble. And coming from the house were the sounds of dishes clanking in the kitchen, a TV blaring, a little boy’s laughter.
That little boy is 5 year-old Yahya, one of my favorites who is about to make the trip to Istanbul this Saturday for heart surgery. Much awaits Yahya. He is getting a new valve put into his heart, a new lease on his young life.
But for now, he is at home. While visiting him and his family in their home last week, I noticed Yahya in the living room playing a soccer-themed video game and giggling with his best friend, Ahmed.
Yahya loves video games. Normally very shy and reserved, his demeanor was relaxed and comfortable when he pretended to be the famous Argentinian soccer player, Lionel Messi. Yahya told his father that when he grows up, he wants to be Messi.
Yahya’s upcoming surgery gives us hope that one day he will overcome his disease and put aside his soccer video games in order to play like a real soccer star outside under the Iraqi sun.
| Sophia is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |
Family Advocate Connecting with a Two-year-old Waiting for Heart Surgery
July 11, 2010 by Sophia · Comments Off
On a house visit last week I noticed Chro’s tiny bright-pink fingernails and toenails as she sat squeamishly on her father’s lap. Chro is one of five children going to surgery on July 18.
Her father is a policeman, a civil servant in charge of protecting their village; but right now he is focused on protecting his little girl by sending her to surgery. At 2 years old, Chro is battling the heart disease inside her chest.
As I sat with her family on the knit rugs that lined their living room floor, Chro’s eyes anxiously looked around. She started to whimper a faint cry because her lungs can hardly provide enough oxygen for the deep breaths that are required to shed many tears.
She was scared.
I could only imagine what might be going through Chro’s head. She is a little girl, who will soon be getting on a plane and flying to a foreign country only to have her small heart cut open and restored. Can she possibly grasp the magnitude of lifesaving heart surgery? I cannot possibly understand what it feels like to be a scared two-year-old with shortness of breath and probing doctors.
After I asked Chro’s family about her likes, her mother, a sturdy Kurdish woman with a protruding pregnant belly, smiled and said, “Dolls, lollipops and ice cream.”
I realized that Chro is a normal little girl. In spite of facing a disease that threatens to take her life, she is a little girl who likes lollipops, rainbows, baby dolls and bright pink. I think we have more in common than I first thought.
| Sophia is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |
Revisiting Nivar Helped PLC Family Advocate Refocus on PLC Goals
June 27, 2010 by Sophia · Comments Off

It is often difficult to measure the level of success of our work here in Iraq. Working with kids and families, donors and budgets is all sometimes daunting.
On a recent visit to see 9 year-old Nivar, I was reminded of how precious life of an Iraqi child with a heart disease is. With little energy to play outside and unable to run around with her younger brothers, Nivar spends her days watching TV and lying down in her family’s home. Her condition is significant and according to her father, she often feels tired and bored now that school is out for the summer.
Nivar is one of the sweetest girls I have had the privilege of meeting here in Iraq. Big green eyes and a smile that captures your heart, she is the epitome of why we here at PLC work to send children to surgery.
We work to see kids outside playing once again. We work to stop sick days and sad childhoods. We work to see smiles and healthy pink cheeks instead of blue ones that show a lack of oxygen.
We work because we love, and we hope that love can be shared with everyone who donates to a child.
I can’t help but think that if we can help save at least one little girl like Nivar, our job will be a success.
| Sophia is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |
UPDATE on Three PLC Kids Three Months After Surgery
June 20, 2010 by Sophia · Comments Off
Driving the dusty highways of Iraq, past kids selling water on the side of the road and through security checkpoints, I’ve found that the journey to visit PLC patients is one of joy. These family visits after a child has been sent to surgery are used to see the child’s progress and their health condition post-surgery.
Last week I had the pleasure of visiting three children who have already undergone surgery. Mohammed, Deelan, and Sara received successful, life-saving heart surgeries earlier this year, and what a joy it was to see them doing well only a few months after!
Eleven-month-old Mohammed entered the reunion screaming his head off – a wonderful sign of healthy lungs and a healthy heart! Mohammed has been gaining weight since his return home and can happily entertain himself with a cell phone on his father’s lap, not unlike many babies his age.
Deelan, now one and a half years old, has had tremendous improvement in his condition. Before surgery Deelan was a very weak and frail little boy, but he is now feisty and pushing over tables and chairs!
As Jessica, the family services director for PLC, recalled, “Deelan was so weak and tired on the way to surgery… his mother just didn’t know what to do with him.” That doesn’t seem to be a problem for Deelan’s mother now since it appears she spends some of her time chasing Deelan as his tiny legs run in circles around the room.
Sara, who is 14 years old, had her surgery in March. Ever so polite, she carries herself with confidence and maturity. When asked what she hopes to be in the future, Sara said proudly that she wants to study medicine, because her doctors were, in her own words, “so good.”
Revisiting kids like these three that inspires us at PLC to continue our work here in Iraq. Some days the stories of sick children are hard to handle, but when we are able to see tired and defeated faces turn into healthy and smiling ones, it certainly gives us strength.
| Sophia is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |
Yahya’s Playtime with a Preemptive Love Family Advocate
June 5, 2010 by Sophia · 1 Comment

The first time I wandered onto the Preemptive Love Coalition website, I was drawn to the images. The poignant photos of sick children laughing and playing made their personalities come to life. Delicately illustrated stories depicted the reality of their conditions and the urgency to help them. Already a very maternal person, I instantly wanted to pick them up, talk to them, play with them, comfort them, and ultimately help save their lives. Before this summer, I could only imagine how beautiful an encounter with one of these children would be.
Just the other day, I experienced the first of what I hope to be many encounters with PLC kids. Shy and nestled under the skirt of his mother’s headscarf, five year-old Yahya came into the PLC office. His sweet smile was masked by a veil of bashfulness and uncertainty, and I was eager to make him giggle. Bouncing balls, coloring pictures and shooting a rubber band gun helped me break the ice. I was essentially making myself look like a fool in order to get him to laugh, but it was all worth it to see the look on his face when he realized that he could relax; that he could play.
I didn’t speak the unique Kurdish-Arabic blend of his family when I played with Yahya, but I didn’t need to in order to communicate with him. Sharing the qualities of just about every child I have ever met, Yahya wanted nothing more than to feel comfortable and at ease so that he could goof around and enjoy himself. It takes few language skills to have playtime with a preschooler.
At five years old, Yahya’s short life has been filled with little playtime. Born with some of the most complex heart problems, Yahya’s grave condition set him on a path filled with physical malformations and potential social setbacks. But while we were playing, he was just a normal little boy waiting for a lifesaving surgery.
I can honestly say that my short time with Yahya is one of the most rewarding things I have done since coming to Iraq. Yahya is a very ill little boy, and I know that my loving him cannot save him. But playtime can do wonderful things for a child!
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Our goal for Yahya today is to raise an additional $1,500 for airfare, food, housing, translation services, remaining surgery expenses and additional contingencies. Whether you’ve seen Yahya around before or this is your first time, help us go beyond meaningful play times to get Yahya the surgical therapy through which he will benefit so much. |
| Sophia is passionate about living, loving and saving lives. While in Iraq, Sophie enjoys wandering the bazaar, trying local foods and playing with the kids. |















