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Mohammed Goes to Surgery After Days Fighting Fever

January 13, 2010 by Jeremy · 538 Comments 

Mohammed

After days waiting, watching, and being anxious about her son’s well being, Mohammed’s mom is relieved to finally send him off to surgery. It’s been a rough week in Istanbul – mixed with joy and sorrow – so we know that that her anxieties are heightened as she hands him over to foreign nurses and doctors.

But this surgery is the strongest chance Mohammed will ever have at living a healthy life. And that’s why the hospital is such fertile ground for peacemaking and changing the way we think about each other. As these Turkish nurses and doctors love her family, it’s not just Mohammed’s heart that is changed; it’s her heart and her family’s collective worldview that is affected as well – giving a real chance at mitigating some of the hatred that between Turks and Kurds after decades of active struggle.

Mohammed is headed to surgery right now… more to come.


Isn’t it amazing to watch life-saving in progress? We are able to do this because thousands of people like you have given $10, $25, and $50 – or whatever they could – to impact the future of kids in Iraq.
Have you helped out yet? Would you give what you can today below?



Follow Mohammed on Twitter: @MohammedUmed. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.


Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Soma Salah Has Passed Away Due to a Blood Clot in Lungs (b. July 24, 2009 – d. January 10, 2010)

January 11, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment 

Soma and mom waiting for surgery

It’s with a heavy heart that I write today to say that Baby Soma passed away at 11:45 p.m., Sunday, January 10th, 2010. I had just gotten off the phone with the church in Texas that funded her surgery and given them the update about her serious condition, while thanking them for taking a risk on her surgery. I didn’t know it at the time, but as they finished their lunch in Texas, Soma’s life was on the line in Istanbul.

It was a blood clot in her lungs – something for which the ECMO machine couldn’t compensate. The surgeons left the comfort of their homes and families in the middle of the night to respond but there was nothing to be done.

Last week I said that the Preemptive Love Coalition was not a heart surgery organization, as though chalking up another heart surgery was of some importance. I said we were a HOPE BANK where parents come for hope transfusions – a global family alongside whom Iraqi families could stand in the face of hopelessness, and finally see light at the end of the dark night. And I said that it was for long-term impact that we had decided to take the risk on Soma’s surgery.

Soma waiting for surgery w/ Jeremy

So how should we understand our decision today? Did we make the right choice? Did we hasten her death? Was it worth it? Was it a failure? Are we complicit?

Everyone will judge us by their own criterion. Indeed, our own answers and emotions have run the gammut this week. This was a huge surprise for us. We had braced ourselves for long-term loss. We were entirely unprepared for loss in the short-term (even though the doctors had only offered a sobering 65% chance of her surviving ICU).

From an organizational stand point, I owe you an answer as to whether or not we count this as a success or failure so you know what to expect from us in the future.

1. This is a failure. We don’t exist for heart surgeries. We exist to impact the children who are most “impactable” for the long-term. In fact, we turn many children away because their long-term well-being is best served by non-surgical solutions. All other things being equal (and they never are), we would use our limited resources to offer surgery to a child who is most likely to be alive with a healthy heart in sixty years before we help a child who will be hanging on by a thread with a dying heart at twenty. In that sense, we invested our money in a bit of a gamble with Soma because we knew that there were other kids back in Iraq who were more highly “impactable.” It would be easy to argue that we didn’t make it past good intentions this time and that this was an “impact fail.” We welcome that critique. And if that is how you’d like your money invested, we are here to put your money to work. At the same time…

Soma Waiting for Tests Before Heart Surgery

2. This is a success. The Preemptive Love Coalition consistently offers hope, help, and life-saving heart surgeries to children that have been rejected by one or more of the other options available to them. Whether it is a question of resource allocation, ethical priorities, or surgical skill, many of the lives we have successfully saved have been turned down by the government, local, or international groups – including Kadeeja, Heran, and Ahmed . We were – as far as anyone knew – their last chance; their last hope. Soma was one of these.

We spoke seriously with Soma’s parents about the risks. In the end, it was not really the Preemptive Love Coalition who decided to do the surgery. What we did was give them the green light to use our funds and choose for themselves. They chose to risk it and in that limited sense, we gave the family what they asked for – a chance at life. And that chance – that hope – is precisely what they had not found in any other government, hospital, or organization. We told them We love you. You matter to us and to God.. From the hope perspective; from the love perspective, this was not a failure. We chose to love; and love deeply.

Soma is Beautiful Baby from Iraq

3. Still, this is a wake up call. We have asked you a number of times what kind of organization you would have us be. Your overwhelming answer is that you’d like us to be people of the last chance. Some families in Iraq are unnervingly content to sit by and deny their children are dying. We’ve seen it a number of times. It defies all reason. But many more are ready to risk it all for a chance to see their 7 month old learn to crawl, go to school, and marry someday. For those families, you’ve declared your intention to stand by their side. And we have used your financial gifts to fulfill your wishes.

Soma stands as a monument of hope for other Last Chance Children. We don’t have to burry her story with her body for fear that it will reflect negatively on our work; for fear that fewer Iraqi children will be helped because of the “bad press.” To us, this isn’t bad press. This is love in motion.

Jon Foreman sings, “If it doesn’t break your heart it isn’t love.”

This is a wake up call because there are going to be more little babies like Soma that break our hearts. Brace yourselves. If you’re in this for the long haul with us, we can promise you:

  • 1. We will give it everything we have and we will give families HOPE and a shot at life.
  • 2. We will see more death.
  • 3. We will love until we bleed out and have nothing left.

With you,

Jeremy Courtney
Executive Director
jeremy [at] preemptivelove.org

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Danar Discharged to His Private Room; Mom Laughs for Joy At His New Life Ahead

January 9, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment 

Danar post-surgery-2

Danar post-surgery-1

Danar's joyful mom-1

We’ve been on this journey with Danar and his family for a few months now. In fact, we know Danar because of a child named Honya we helped back in February 2009. But in all our history with this family, we’ve not seen smiles and happiness; openness, hope, and joy for the future like we saw today.

It’s hard to put this in to words. We trust that the smiles above convey the deep impact you’ve made on the future of Danar, his mom, his dad, their extended family, and the previously destroyed village in Iraq in which they live.

These smiles – and the depth of hope they convey – are one of the primary things we aim for in our work.


Isn’t it amazing to watch life-saving in progress? We are able to do this because thousands of people like you have given $10, $25, and $50 – or whatever they could – to impact the future of kids in Iraq.
Have you helped out yet? Would you give what you can today below?

Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

“Take My Eyes Just Save My Child” Cries Soma’s Mom On the Way to Surgery

January 8, 2010 by Jeremy · 6 Comments 

Soma going to surgery-5

The extended deliberation and explanation about the risks of Soma’s particular surgery was not easy on Soma’s mom – or her dad by telephone back in Iraq. So when it came time to wheel her down to the operating room, emotions were running pretty high and fears were even more piqued than some of the other mothers.

Soma is in surgery right now. More to come in a few hours…


We can do surgeries like this because hundreds of people every year give generously to cover the material costs of surgery to impact the future of kids in Iraq.

Surgeons in Turkey are playing their part. Would you give what you can today to make a difference for tomorrow?

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Mohammed’s Mom Waits Anxiously for Fever to Subside; Surgery Delayed until Monday

January 7, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment 

Anadolu Medical Center-8

A fever presented itself today in Mohammed Umed. As a precautionary measure doctors have delayed his surgery to observe and investigate what may be causing the fever. In the interim period, his mother is understandably anxious as she has now sat by while two other kids have had their chance before hers. Of course, they are all in this together, but it’s easy enough to relate to her desire to be “first” and not “last” in a critical scenario like this.

So this Kurdish mother from Iraq waits in Turkey while her husband serves as a soldier in Baghdad and the rest of her family is at home. Together we are all hoping the fever will not prove to be the result of anything serious; hoping that Mohammed’s chance at surgery is not delayed any further.


Imagine you’re in a foreign land without the language to acquire safe shelter, privacy, and quality food. You can donate below today toward the cost of one day’s room & board so future kids receive excellent hospitality even through medical delays.



Follow Mohammed on Twitter: @MohammedUmed. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.


Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Infection of Endocardium Destroys Danar’s Valve Unlike Anything Doctors Have Seen

January 6, 2010 by Jeremy · 16 Comments 

Ameliyathane - Operating Room

Washing Up...

The Human Heart

“It’s so strange. It’s unlike anything I’ve ever seen.” Those were the words Prof. Sertaç Çiçek used to describe Danar’s heart condition after seeing it up-close in surgery today.

The endocarditis – or inflamation of the inner layer of the heart, called the endocardium (click here for more) – had caused Danar’s heart to be very enlarged because it was overworking itself to compensate for the valved that had been (apparently) completely destroyed by the infection.

The team used his pericardium to create a new valve, which they did successfully and are very pleased with the “minimal leakage” that remains (due to the fact that this is not a REAL heart valve but something they’ve made for him). And once inside, the doctors did not find any evidence of septal defects between the atria or the ventricles.

Danar is resting in ICU right now, in critical condition. His mom has been in to see him and hopes to stay by his side tomorrow or the next day after extubation. The surgery was the easy part. ICU is the scary time for us. Please keep on eye out for news on Danar in the next 24 hours.

Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Light at the End of the Tunnel or….

January 6, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

The Light

Danar On the Way to Surgery

Imagine your child or your three year old brother or sister was just wheeled down this hallway, in the hands of a group of strangers speaking a different language, about whom you’ve only heard terrifying stories of oppression and injustice against your people…. would you feel:

  1. Thankful to be receiving their help
  2. Distrustful or their motives
  3. Hopeful for your child
  4. Scared of their skill level

Obviously human emotions are not so simply encapsulated… but these are some of the emotions that each Kurd from Iraq (more so than the Arabs we serve) faces when placed in the humble position to receive help from the Turkish life-savers to the north of them.

We love Prof. Sertaç Çiçek’s quote: Medicine is the currency of peacemaking

And so it is for these four families this week. Danar is in surgery…. now we wait with his mother.

Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Danar’s Echo Shows No Septal Defects; Instead Infection Eats Away Tricuspid Valve

January 6, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment 

Danar On the Way to Echo

Danar Prepares for Diagnostic Echocardiogram

Danar Echo

Danar Echo

Danar's Sucks on Candy in Pre-Op Consult with Prof. Sertaç Çiçek

Both of the holes in Danar’s heart (an ASD and a VSD) that were previously seen by two cardiologists in Iraq have apparently closed over by themselves. Still, the infection in his heart is doing severe damage to Danar’s tricuspid valve. Doctors determined today in the consult to attempt a correction of the valve.

Because of Danar’s age and weight, an artificial valve – such as the ones funded by our Heartmender Tee – is not an option. They hope to correct and reconstruct the valve with the tissue of his own pericardium.

Follow 3-year-old Danar on Twitter: @danarsami. Subscribe to Danar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Danar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Meet Soma Salah (Twitter: @SomaSalah)

January 6, 2010 by Jeremy · 19 Comments 




It’s hard to know what to say about Soma – there is so much to tell. She’s from a village in Iraq that was utterly destroyed by Saddam Hussein. Her father was tortured by Saddam’s Ba’athist regime by electric shock and now suffers neurological difficulties as a result. And to complicate it all, after losing a child on the second day of birth, Soma’s parents learned when Soma was just a few days old that she was born with a congenital heart disease.

We’re taking her to Istanbul, Turkey for what we hope will be a life-saving heart surgery.


Special thanks to the college students of FWCM.org for their phenomenal $14,800+ two week fundraising campaign for Soma and one other child. Your passion and effectiveness in fundraising is a testament to the faith, values and lifestyle you profess. We’re looking for 12 other houses of worship, schools, and clubs to partner with us in 2010. Click here for more on our Fifty Family Focus.

Soma Salah Hope Thumbnail

PRINT & PASS ALONG SOMA’S HOPE CARD HERE.


Follow baby Soma on Twitter: @SomaSalah. Subscribe to Soma’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Soma’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.

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ADDITIONAL LOCAL FUNDING BY:

family funding*
FAMILY FUNDING

Kurdistan Save the Children
KURDISTAN SAVE THE CHILDREN

*In accordance with PLC’s desire to lend a hand-up by avoiding strict hand-outs (when possible), Soma’s family – though living in the poorest area we’ve ever seen in Iraq – was able to work with local government and family to provide $3,500 towards PLC’s highly-discounted surgery prices.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Meet Mohammed Umed (Twitter: @MohammedUmed)

January 6, 2010 by Jeremy · 229 Comments 



Mohammed is going to Turkey for heart surgery for the second time since he was born in May 2009.

His parents took him the first time and the doctors created a hole in his heart to compensate for some of the other problems he was having, in preparation for a full correction once he developed a little more. That time has come and we’ve brought him back to Turkey for what we hope will be a full correction.

Mohammed Umed Hope Thumbnail

PRINT & PASS ALONG HIS HOPE CARD HERE.

Follow Mohammed on Twitter: @MohammedUmed. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.

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ADDITIONAL LOCAL FUNDING BY:

family funding*
FAMILY FUNDING

Kurdistan Save the Children
KURDISTAN SAVE THE CHILDREN

*In accordance with PLC’s desire to lend a hand-up by avoiding strict hand-outs (when possible), Mohammed’s family has received some financial assistance from his work as a soldier and given $8,000 towards PLC’s highly-discounted surgery prices.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

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