Baroof’s Scar Stands Against Kurdish Terror and Turkish Oppression
July 4, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment

The photo above tells the story of an extremely different child than the one we met in March right before boarding a plane to Istanbul, Turkey. Three months ago Baroof received a rare and complicated surgery for his age – a surgery that ultimately has spared his life and ushered in a new season of joy and obvious strength.
But basking in this season of salvation isn’t quite as easy as it might be for other children in other places. Baroof’s family lives on the Iraq – Turkey border, where for years Kurdish separatist rebels (members of the Kurdish Worker’s Party or the PKK) have been mounting attacks against the Turkish government in pursuit of an independent Kurdish nation. In response to the PKK’s terrorizing of Turkish civilians and military personnel, the Turkish government often responds with a blunted hammer where a precision tool might have been more effective.
The activities of the PKK claim to be a response to Turkish oppression. And Turkish heavy-handedness claims to be a response to Kurdish terrorism. And thus, the cycle continues.
Because of this cycle, Baroof and his family have grown up with a relatively monochromatic view of Turks and Turkey – such as “Turks are the oppressors who kill our Kurdish cousins in Turkey and cross international borders into Iraq to kill our family here as well” or something similar.
In March, we helped throw a splash of color on that single story. What was once a black and white issue has been somewhat mitigated by the kind actions of Turkish doctors who give generously of themselves and their skills to serve children like Baroof. The kindness was not lost on Baroof or his family. Now back in Iraq after surgery, they express their gratitude to Kurds around them for the Turks who saved their son’s life, thereby pushing back a single story about Turkish oppression and easy justifications of Kurdish rebellion.
Some of Baroof’s tribal members and distant cousins have died at the hands of the Turkish military. Others likely bare the scars of near-misses and raids gone wrong. But Baroof’s scar is a line of love from your heart, through Istanbul, Turkey, all the way to the border of Turkey and Iraq.
Your financial gifts have enabled Turkish surgeons to write new language into the region.
Baroof starts school again in September. Because of you, his desk will not sit empty this year. Because of you, his Kurdish friends – who might otherwise be enticed into the ways of PKK terror – will constantly contend with the scar on his chest and the technicolor story it tells.
|
|
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Three Kids Headed Home with Happy, Healthy Hearts
March 10, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment

This doesn’t look like the happiest group of people, but trust us, they are! It was 6 a.m. at an airport! Few are happy in that context!
It’s been a great journey for Muhammed, Baroof, and Sozyar. Both Muhammed and Sozyar were “urgent.” It was unclear whether Muhammed or Baroof would even be operable. And look at them today!
In our talks today with Dr. Resmiye at the Anadolu Medical Center she used words like “miracle” and “unbelievable” and “they won their lives back” to describe these kids.
Usually we try to keep a healthy balance of the “miraculous” and that which can be reasonable calculated according to the medical numbers. It’s hard to build a budget around miracles! But we are thrilled to celebrate GOD’s kindness in the lives of these children alongside the Turkish doctors who, themselves, have said that it is GOD’s doing and not just their own.
By the time this posts, Muhammed, Baroof, and Sozyar will be resting at home – in the city or the village – with their daddies and extended families who have been missing them so much.
As much as the surgery at this point, the fact that you’ve paid for round trip airfare through our partnership with Atlasjet Airlines for these kids is a great source of comfort, because healing means precious little when it separates you from the ones you love the most!
These children are now enrolled in the Preemptive Love Followthrough program. We’ll track their progress as Baroof goes back to school and Muhammed and Sozyar learn how to walk, and we’ll offer a number of services to them for the next six months (and often, much longer).
|
|
Followthrough Program
With our Followthrough program we monitor a child’s healing and re-entry into their home culture, teach the importance of activity and a balanced diet, and address issues like racism and other radical ideologies. This amount represents the costs of medications, special needs, teaching materials, etc.
|
Follow baby Sozyar on Twitter: @SozyarHamdan. Subscribe to Sozyar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Sozyar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
Follow Muhammed Adnan on Twitter: @MuhammedAdnan. Subscribe to Muhammed’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Muhammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Photo of the Day: Baroof is All Smiles After Surgery
March 9, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
It’s possible that you had to know Baroof before his life-saving heart surgery for his rare heart condition to appreciate the joy in his step these last few days. When we met him, he was scared and downcast – being old enough to understand what was at stake if he didn’t get the heart surgery he needed.
But now – thanks to you! – Baroof is joyful, full of hope, and full of hugs and kisses to boot!
Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Baroof Works His Lungs After Discharge from ICU
March 8, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
At first Baroof was a little ambivalent toward the exercises designed to improve his lung capacity and rehabilitate him after his heart surgery. As much as he wants to get back outside and play football (soccer), he has a hard time connecting these “meaningless” exercises with his real end game!
But when Jessica – our Family Services Director – pulled out the camera and made it a game, Baroof was plenty excited to show off.
Baroof is looking really great and his mood is as happy as we’ve ever seen it. His fear of the Turks attending to his needs (“Turks” about whom he has no doubt heard plenty of disparagement in his border town) has turned into affinity; and his uncertainty about these weird Americans always trying to speak his language and take his pictures has turned into was just might be abiding friendship.
Comprehensive, human-scale peacemaking efforts and long-term, whole person family services – two of our core values at the Preemptive Love Coalition in action here in Istanbul, Turkey and in Iraq this week.
With thanks and joy!

Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Successful Surgery for Deelan & Special Call for Lifesaving Funding
March 3, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
It was all smiles after another successful heart surgery here in Istanbul. Deelan’s surgery was a “total correction” – though he is still in ICU on a treatment of nitric oxide to bring down the pressure in his lungs.
In addition to being a by-product of cigarette smoke and rush hour traffic – not to mention a body building supplement – nitric oxide is used in pediatric intensive care. From the source of all online wisdom, Wikipedia:
The endothelium (inner lining) of blood vessels uses nitric oxide to signal the surrounding smooth muscle to relax, thus resulting in vasodilation and increasing blood flow.
and
Nitric oxide is considered an anti-anginal drug: it causes vasodilation, which can help with ischemic pain known as angina by decreasing the cardiac workload. By dilating the veins there is less blood returned to the heart per cycle. This decreases the amount of volume that the heart has to pump.
Nitric oxide should not be confused with “laughing gas” – or, more officially, nitrous oxide – N2O.
Nitric oxide is also very expensive. In fact, we’ve had to use it already on Muhammed and Baroof. In addition to normal surgery costs (which is essential to repair the CAUSE of pulmonary hypertension), NO can undo the previous effects of the now-repaired cause. To fix the cause and not seek to reverse the effects is to leave the net outcome the same.
We spent $2,000 per child on nitric oxide, for a total of $6,000. As much as the surgery itself, this has really proven to be the stuff that saves lives. So today I’m going to ask that you find a way to give generously to the Lifesaving Nitric Oxide Fund to pay down Muhammed, Baroof, and Deelan’s additional costs and to pave the way for future children who will need this treatment.
![]() Molecule of the Year (1992), Nitric Oxide |
To save lives through the very specific provision of nitric oxide, please contribute your desired amount below. One container of nitric oxide costs us approximately $2,000. |
Follow Deelan on Twitter: @DeelanKameran. Subscribe to Deelan’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Deelan’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Baroof Off Life-Support, Breathing on His Own and Hungry in ICU
March 2, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
We were surprised to find Baroof this morning extubated in ICU so quickly after his surgery. We knew he had high pulmonary pressure – which often leads to a longer, riskier recovery period. So we were thrilled to see him doing so well. But his pressures are completely under control right now and he is doing phenomenal well after the surgeons closed the hole/fusion between his aorta and pulmonary artery yesterday!
But he was quite hungry! He’s in that in between period where he’s awake and aware of what is happening to him, but not yet healthy enough to eat solid foods to satisfy his adolescent appetite!
There is talk of Baroof being discharged from ICU to his private room tomorrow… here’s hoping and praying!
With thanks and joy!

Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Baroof’s Surgery was a Total Success; Huge Blessing for a Child His Age!
March 1, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
When Dr. Sertaç Çiçek and Dr. Ahmet Arsalan saw Baroof this morning in surgery they found a huge fusion between his aorta and pulmonary artery, effectively creating a hole where there should not be one and allowing dangerous blood flow between that which should be oxygenated and that which should not.
In his entire career, Dr. Çiçek estimates that he’s probably only seen and operated on this type of case less than 20 times (compared to many other surgeries that he’s performed hundreds and hundreds of times). But of the twenty or fewer times that he’s performed a surgery similar to Baroof’s, few if any have been Baroof’s age at 12 years old because usually children with AP windows are inoperable by this age, after years of the body trying to compensate for its deficiencies.
As a result of his condition, Baroof is a few years behind in school – but it’s always a joy to see families here who continue to push their children to excel even in the face of adversity. We hope the impact of this surgery will be the removal any final barriers and that he will excel in his school work.
But Baroof’s surgery went well and after the stress of not knowing whether or not he would be operable at all, his mother – and all of us – are breathing a huge sigh of relief and thanks to GOD for another successful surgery.
As always, however, we have tempered celebration until we see how Baroof’s body holds up post-operatively in ICU. He is intubated in ICU and the next few days will be critical. More to come…
With thanks and joy!

Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Baroof Worries in His Room Before Going to Surgery This Morning
March 1, 2010 by Ruth · Leave a Comment
I spent an hour with 12-year-old Baroof this morning right before he was scheduled to have his life-saving surgery.
He’s a really sweet boy from a village in the north of Iraq. He speaks a different dialect of Kurdish from the one I know, but despite the language barrier we were still able to understand each other some. He told me that he’s really missing his dad and his brother and sister who are just a little older than him. He seemed a nervous as he waited which is to be expected, and he was also very hungry from having to fast before the surgery.
He was very excited to be able to talk to his dad for a few minutes before I left him but from the tears in his eyes afterwards we could tell that he is really missing him.
Baroof was taken into surgery at 11:40 a.m. Istanbul time. We’ll keep you updated on Baroof as we hear more in the next few hours.
Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
| Ruth Simpson was a Family Advocate for the Preemptive Love Coalition in Iraq (2008-2010) and a certified physio-therapist. Ruth hails from Ireland, though she's slowly losing her amazing accent amongst all the Americans. When not sharing her life with PLC's kids in Iraq, she served other constituent groups with her rehabilitative skills and compassion. |
Meet Baroof (Twitter: @BaroofAbdul)
March 1, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
Baroof is the fourth of the initial four children we brought with us to Iraq on February 23rd. He came to us through an organization in northern Iraq. When Prof. Dr. Sertaç Çiçek and his team saw Baroof in our Iraq screening two weeks ago, they wondered whether or not he would be operable. In any case, the window of operability was certainly closing quickly.
Baroof’s condition is known as an “aortopulmonary window” – or AP window – a rare heart defect in which a hole between the major blood vessel feeding the heart and the one going to the lungs. AP windows are so very rare they account for approximately .1% of all congenital heart defects according to U.S. National Library of Medicine.
Baroof was admitted to a diagnostic catheterization on Thursday night in which Dr. Levent from the Anadolu Medical Center determined he would be operable – and confirmed that he very much needed surgery… and fast.
More information to come on Baroof…
Follow Baroof on Twitter: @BaroofAbdul. Subscribe to Baroof’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Baroof’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
*In accordance with PLC’s desire to lend a hand-up by avoiding strict hand-outs (when possible), Baroof’s family worked with the regional government and with personal and government funds contributed $6,000 towards PLC’s highly-discounted surgery prices.
![]() |
Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @Jeremy_Courtney. |
Advocate of the Week: Lawan Hawizy
January 28, 2010 by Cody · Comments Off

Lawan Hawizy, an Iraqi-Kurd living in London, is our advocate of the week! How do you become an “Advocate of the Week”? You overcome chronic back pain and knee surgery and run a half marathon with three of your friends to raise money and awareness to pay for the life-saving heart surgery for a group of kids in Iraq needing lifesaving heart surgery.
This might not be our standard every week but when we talked with Lawan and heard his story, we knew this title belonged to him! Lawan and 27,000 others will run the Semi-Marathon De Paris on March 7th. The only difference is that Lawan’s running to save lives.
![]() |
Our February group of kids comprises Kurds from all over northern Iraq, including Sulaymaniyah, Erbil, and Dohuk regions. They were all born with congenital heart disease and because of that they can’t play like the other kids and face death. They definitely cannot run like Lawan. But now, thanks to Lawan, kids like Mohammed (pictured left), Sara, and Lea have a chance at life and one day they too can be an advocate that’s willing to run miles in honor of those who can’t. | |||
![]() |
Join Lawan and his team in their fight for the lives of our February surgery group by donating the amount of your choice in the field below. All donations help the Preemptive Love Coalition send the group to life-saving heart surgery.
|
|||
|
Some of our international customers have apparently been having problems donating. To make a gift over the phone using your credit card (Visa, MasterCard, American Express, or Discover), please call +1 805-245-4666 during normal business hours – Monday through Friday, 8:00 am to 6:00 p.m. Pacific Coast Time (GMT -8:00). |
||||
|
This campaign was originally initiated in the name of a little girl named Daroon. Because of family fears of sending their child and her mother abroad for surgery to Turkey, they have withdrawn her name from our February Group. All funds previously raised in her name were donated online under the “February Surgery Group” line item (please see your receipt) and those funds will be used – along with any further donations – to meet the financial needs of the entire group, as some surgeries come in over/under budget. For more information please email info[at]preemptivelove[dot]org. | |||
![]() |
Cody Fisher is the co-founder and Development Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He moved to Iraq in 2007 where he met his wife and since then they've been waging peace and mending hearts across Iraq. His passions are photography, peacemaking, and food that doesn't come out of a can. You can follow him on Twitter: |































