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Shad Faraydoon Hama (b. Nov. 18, 1999 – d. June 6, 2009)

June 6, 2009 by Jeremy · 5 Comments 

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Shad Faraydoon Hama passed away this morning after ten years of fighting the heart disease, blood problems, and the resulting pulmonary embolism that finally took his life.

Dr. Sertaç Çiçek and his team tried everything known in the realm of pediatric cardiology to save Shad’s life… but in the end ten years of suffering had taken too much of a toll on his increasingly fragile body.

On June 3rd – when Shad was still surprising everyone by how well he was doing – he and his father talked extensively about when he would be going home. His father insisted that they would leave on Saturday. But Shad – as though he knew something that no one else knew – maintained that he would not be ready to leave by Saturday… that they would return together on the Tuesday morning flight.

In the end, they were both right. Shad did leave this place today, Saturday, June 6th. And his father is scheduled to return to his home city with his son’s body on Tuesday, June 9th.

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As we stood with his father by Shad’s bedside this morning just minutes after his death, the most joyous and saddest words I’ve ever heard with my own ears were spoken by Shad’s father to his little boy. He said:

My dearest little Shad, your life on this earth was so difficult and full of sadness. But it was such a joy for me to have you here. But now your life here is over; you are in Joy and Happiness forever. But now I am the one left in difficulty and sadness without you.

You were like seven sons to me. You were like seven brothers, too. My son! My friend! What will I tell your mother? What will I tell your grandmother? My eldest boy… how can I live without you?

Xwa hafiz, Shada gyan. Xwa hafiz.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Shad in Critical Condition after Two Emergency Surgeries

June 4, 2009 by Jeremy · 4 Comments 

Ten year old Shad is back in ICU after a surprisingly wonderful night last night with his father up in their personal hospital room. Shad spoke with his dad a great deal last night about his excitement to return to Iraq, his eagerness to sit with his mom and play with his little brother and little sister, and his excitement over how many people were going to come visit him upon his return.

But if things do not turn around significantly – and fast – it looks as though many people will come to visit Shad in Iraq, but not in the way we’d all hoped and planned.

Shad’s blood does not respond well to anti-coagulants, being very viscous and subject to so many years of oxygen deficiency. Last night after a sudden bout of diarrhea it seems that Shad became dehydrated very quickly giving rise to blood clots which eventually blocked the flow of blood in his pulmonary artery. His oxygen level quickly decreased as he was rushed to the ICU.

He was quickly admitted to his third surgery in a week where doctors put him back on the “heart and lung” machine and began their third attempt at correcting years of damage.

But three hours after the surgery finished, while resting under heavy sedation in ICU, Shad went into cardiac arrest again and the doctors had to open him up in ICU and perform the fourth surgery on Shad.

As we write this (10pm, Istanbul, 06/04/09) Shad is still in critical condition but his father has lost all hope that he will pull through. Doctors are saying there is a chance, but it is clear that after ten years and four surgeries in one week the odds are severely stacked against him.

In the midst of great grief (real and anticipated) Shad’s father has been very grateful today to Dr. Çiçek, his team, the nursing staff, PLC, and ultimately to God – in whose hands are all things. He has also spent a lot of time telling us how much he has learned from his son about patience, kindness, and caring for others.

In any case, Shad was made to wait ten years too long for these surgeries. But it doesn’t have to be too late for other children in Iraq.

Shad is still alive. And so is our hope.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Better Late Than Never: Shad Comes Out of ICU!

June 2, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

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It took him longer than the rest of the kids – a direct result of so many emaciating years of lack of oxygen that has made his body too weak to cough (to clear his lungs) and move on his own. Nonetheless, Shad emerged from ICU today and is on the road to being a much healthier young man! A weight has clearly been lifted off his father’s remarkably strong shoulders…

Thanks for all you’ve done to make this new future a reality for Shad, his parents, and his little brother and sister.

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Shad Makes it Through Surgery!

May 27, 2009 by Jeremy · 1 Comment 

This is what a fighting chance at life looks like!

But Shad’s dad couldn’t stand it… he said he didn’t want to see his son like this. He’ll return to ICU once they take out the tubes and have him more stable.

Nonetheless, Shad’s father understands the ramifications of this life-saving surgery and is full of joy and hope today.

From Shad’s family, Roman’s family, and all of us at the Preemptive Love Coalition “thanks!”

PHOTO CREDIT: Matt Addington (ToOpenYourEyes.com)

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Shad & Heran Accepted to Surgery

May 25, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

We just left the cardio catheterization lab at ASM Hospital in Istanbul where Dr. Cicek has accepted Shad (10 yr. boy) and Heran (7 yr. girl) to surgery. It was a phenomenal moment!

Upon going upstairs and telling Shad’s father and Heran’s mother we all erupted in hugs and celebration… praises to God and thanks to each other after a long day of waiting, playing, and patience. It was a moment we will never forget!

Roman goes to surgery at 10 a.m. Istanbul time, Tuesday morning.

PHOTO CREDIT: Matt Addington

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

Three Iraqi Kids to Surgery Tonight

May 23, 2009 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

Tonight at 3 a.m. 3 Iraqi kids and one parent each will board a plane with representatives of the Preemptive Love Coalition to travel to life-saving heart surgery in Istanbul, Turkey.

Accompanying the group will be filmmaker Michael Dalton and photographer Matt Addington. You can view some of their documentary work about these children and the Preemptive Love Coalition at www.ToOpenYourEyes.com and below.

Roman

Heran

Shad

Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt.

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