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A New Look For Our Office—So When Are You Coming To Visit?

May 14, 2013 by · 2 Comments 

We just finished cleaning up and redecorating our office here in Iraq.

It’s amazing what a fresh coat of paint, some new pictures, and a Bonsai tree can do to improve the look of a place. Sometimes the instability and frustrations of this part of the world leave us wondering whether or not we’ll actually be able to keep living here, and that uncertainty can make it hard to ‘dig in.’

So we see the paint and the pictures as an excuse to dig in and recommit to doing life here.

The next time you’re in town you should come visit—baklava and tea on us!

A collage showing our the new look of our office.

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Six Places We’re Visiting On Our Upcoming American Tour—Will We See You?

February 14, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo of Preemptive Love Coalition staff speaking at Calvin College.
I recently sat across a table from a white, middle-class, 20-something American man from Texas and it was just so… wonderful.

No, I wasn’t having tea with a mirror.

When we aren’t helping Fallujan babies get heart operations, we’re constantly encouraging you to engage ‘the other,’ to find someone radically different from yourself—preferably someone you would deem an ‘enemy’—and to connect with them. You get extra points for learning from them, and even more points for loving them when they treat you poorly.

But there is something really sweet about connecting and refreshing with like-minded people, and that’s why our recent trips across the United States have felt like a breath of fresh air. We speak the same language, we agree that Mayo on fries is nasty, and we share a common cultural heritage. Not to mention you guys teach us so much!

A photo of Jeremy Courtney and Cody Fisher at Calvin College for the January Series.

The eyes-wide-open passion of the students and faculty at Cedarville University, Bryan College, Taylor University, Calvin College, and Pepperdine University blew us away; it gave us hope.

So, to all the individuals and institutions who have hosted us in recent days: THANK YOU! Your role in the Coalition is invaluable—you’re saving lives in Iraq, and you’re certainly making ours better.

A photo of Jeremy Courtney speaking at Calvin College's January Series.
We’re headed back to the States this month for a series of speaking engagements, and we’d love to see you! Check the listing below to see if we’ll be in your area, or leave us a comment/send me an email if you’d like to host one of our staff for a dialogue about enemy-love, peacemaking, or our development work in Iraq.

    Houston Baptist University – February 19 – Houston

    The Justice Conference – February 22+23 – Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

    The Loft Church – February 23-24 – The Woodlands, Texas

    Ecclesia Church – February 24 – Houston, Texas

    Eastgate Community Church – February 25 – Cincinnati, Ohio

    Cedarville University – February 27 – Cedarville, Ohio

A photo of Jeremy Courtney and a faculty member at Calvin College.

Photo Credit: Calvin College

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Zombies, Baby Blood, And The Call of Duty To Love Our Neighbor

January 22, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo from our ride into Fallujah, Iraq.

I fidgeted on my stool, trying to focus in spite of the noise.

Off-duty doctors huddled nearby. They were glued to a Jason Statham movie, awaiting his next kill.

My stomach churned. Between the cigarettes and the high-volumed intensity characteristic of blown out Iraqi speakers, I honestly couldn’t take one more head-shot.

BANG!

The one-liner is delivered and my friends rumble their approval, scooting their chairs closer to the flat-screen. I snapped my computer lid shut and retreated—nauseated—as more thunder echoed be behind me.

A photo of a baby from Fallujah, her mother, and the cardiologist who saved her life.

Half an hour later, I stood in an O.R. filming doctors as they pulled blood from a beautiful baby boy named Abdul before his heart operation. In a way, Abdul’s blood and shrieking made Statham’s flick seem gore-free, but arriving in the O.R. actually helped settle my stomach.

Somehow this was different, and I began to realize it wasn’t about blood.

It was the violence.

All of this happened on my fourth day in the city of Fallujah—the medical mission progressed, and spirits were high. But I couldn’t stop thinking about my physiological reaction to that movie. It’s hard to pin-point why, exactly, but my body and mind can no longer handle violent media.

A screenshot from the game, Six Days In Fallujah.
Photo Credit: “Six Days In Fallujah“, Atomic Games

In college, violent movies and games like Call of Duty never really affected me—they were just fun past-times. But something about being in Fallujah, with all its bombed-out buildings and birth defects… it got too real, too fast.

During research for a video I was making, I watched a ton of archived footage from the battles that happened in Fallujah. The helmet-mounted cameras made the killings almost indistinguishable from my favorite 1st person shooter games—except these were real.

The snarky comments made by soldiers, the way both sides treated prisoners and dead bodies, and all the blood. So much blood. Nobody was respawning after these fights—no ‘extra lives.’

I want to be clear: this post is not about boycotting anything—I’m not saying we should all go tee up our action movies and XBOX games and golf club them to oblivion.

I’m just asking a simple question: at what point have we lost touch with reality? At what point did I lose touch?

As a person who strives to follow Jesus Christ and his teachings, I look at the “Sermon on the Mount” and wonder how I got where I am. Jesus stood up and taught radical enemy-love, pain-absorption over pain-reciprocation, and the happiness of peacemakers. Am I training myself toward those things?

Am I preparing my heart to love the limbless family members who brought their sick, war-stricken children into the hospital for surgery? What if their child dies in the ICU and they blame or even try to hurt me—how have I prepared myself to respond?

Or what about the suicidal American solders—more of whom have died at home than on the battle field—am I ready to love them, given the chance?

This is what we mean when we say “preemptive love,” and, if it doesn’t cost me anything, I have to wonder whether it’s even real.

During a recent gaming spree, my wife asked me, “Is ‘Nazi Zombie Mode’ just an excuse to kill things without feeling bad?” She was right, I want it both ways.

Writing endless blog posts that call people to love their perceived enemies while using a broken-off bayonet to hack mine to pieces in a video game really doesn’t add up, regardless of whether or not the game is ‘real.’

A photo of the killing of 4 Blackwater mercenaries in 2004.
Photo Credit: Karim Sahib, AFP

When you think of Fallujah, you might remember the murdered mercenaries in 2004. How did you react when you saw the charred bodies?

With that in mind, don’t you find it disturbing how excited my Muslim friends in Fallujah were by the heart-numbing gore on the screen in front of them?

Don’t you find it disturbing how many Christians in America enjoy the same kinds of entertainment?

What can we do to prepare ourselves to love when it’s difficult? I would encourage you to start by considering the paraphrased teaching from Jesus below—how far should we take these words? Then email me your thoughts, or connect with me via PLC’s Twitter and Facebook accounts. If you disagree, please share why—I promise not to attack you with a broken-off bayonet.

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“You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves.”

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

The Hard Work of Making Children Smile

November 27, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

A collage of silly faces and smiles from Remedy Mission XIII in Najaf, Iraq.
Not surprisingly, Iraqi children seem to dislike going to the hospital as much as all the other children on this planet.

Something about needles and scalpels and face-masks brings out the sourest faces. Even after all the anesthesia, after I’ve dished out candy and toys, and after I’ve made humiliating faces for them, smiles are often hard to come by. For some kids, the fear even gets so bad that they just cry any time they see someone in scrubs coming toward them.

But this emotional honesty is one of my favorite things about children. They are genuine, and they haven’t learned how to mask it.

What I mean is, if they don’t feel like doing something, they just don’t do it. When I tell a child to smile for a photo, they almost always just stare back at me. “What’s there to smile about with you sticking that lens in my face?”

But we adults have (most of us) learned how to fake it. We can pull a camera-smile for any occasion, regardless of how we feel. Shooting pictures of smiling children takes a lot more work. And you’ve got to always have your finger on the shutter button, because that moment passes in a heartbeat.

Remedy Mission XIII is the fourth mission I’ve shot, and it has probably been the least-smiley mission so far. We’ve seen a lot of very sick, oxygen-deprived children who—in some cases—weren’t physically able to smile. Thankfully, they’re waking up in the ICU and on their way toward feeling better than ever as their hearts are finally working correctly. Hopefully we’ll have more happy faces to show you soon!


Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Hikes Around Babylon, Hoops In Saddam’s Living Room

October 10, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo of the ruins of Babylon with Saddam's former palace on the hilltop behind them near Hilla, Iraq.
We’re halfway through Remedy Mission XII, and that means something sweet: a day off.

On previous Remedy Missions, I used this day to catch up on big projects or even to grab a few extra hours of sleep. As you can probably imagine, these missions that you help us put on are intense.

We arrive at the hospital at 8am and usually stay there until 8 or 9 at night; if an operation goes longer, the team sometimes stays past midnight. After a week of this, a day off is essential for the team to refuel.

A photo of the Remedy Mission XII team touring the inner city of Babylon with a tour guide.
Many of these doctors and nurses use their vacation time to come on trips like this—that means they’re using their vacation to work harder than they would at home!

But the mid-mission trip is a good opportunity for the team to enjoy a little time away from the hospital, and for this mission we went to the ancient city of Babylon and Saddam’s vacated former palace.

Iraq, as I’m sure you know, is a place with a lot of history; The Cradle of Civilization, as it’s often called. And a lot of cool stuff that you’ve probably heard of was invented here: farming, cities, writing, and the wheel, just to name a few.

A photo of the Lion of Babylon outside the Procession Way in Babil, Iraq near Hilla.
For me personally, it’s an interesting place because of the Biblical references. I grew up reading and hearing about Babylon, I had read the history—the words—and I knew the city existed, but visiting it and taking pictures of it with my own eyes made it so much more real—it offered me a reference point.

And that’s really my hope for you as you see photos and watch videos of these children you’re helping us save. I wish each of you could come to a Remedy Mission and to walk the halls of a hospital in-the-flesh, but I hope the hundreds of sweet, needy faces that we put in front of you will make this fact more and more real to you: The Backlog exists, and it isn’t ancient history.

At least not yet!

After an hour of trying to keep up with our tour guides, we piled into a van and drove up the hill to one of Saddam’s old palaces (pictured in the photo above behind the Lion). The photos below show a little of what we saw, including the basketball hoop in Saddam’s living room (presumably left by Coalition forces?).

A photo of the stairway up to the second floor in Saddam's Babylon palace near Hilla, Iraq.
Barbed wire blocking the stairway to the second floor of the palace.

An old makeshift basketball hoop hung in the former sitting room of Saddam's Babil palace.
A makeshift basketball hoop hung in the former sitting room of the palace.

A photo of the rebuilt ruins of Babylon as seen from Saddam's palace.
The rebuilt ruins of Babylon as seen from Saddam’s palace window.

A photo of one of our personal security guards poking his head into the shot of Saddam's living room ceiling.
Ali, one of our security guards, with the ceiling of the living room behind him.


Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

Update From The O.R.—Valve Shmalve, What’s Really Wrong With Zahraa’s Heart?

October 7, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

You’ve read about Zahraa, and we hope you’re following her story.

But wouldn’t you like to know what’s really going on inside her chest? What is it that poses such a lethal threat to her well-being, and what does it take to fix it?

Cardiologists can answer these questions because they spend years studying the heart in medical school, and then they’re constantly learning for the rest of their career. So, since we can’t all be savvy heart doctors, we decided to pull one into the O.R. for a quick interview!

Watch the above video (or click HERE) to get a better understanding of what’s going on inside little Zahraa’s heart!


Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

My First Remedy—A First-Timer’s Look Into The Echo Lab

October 5, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo of the International Children's Heart Foundation cardiologist in Najaf performing a screening on an Iraqi child.
I’ve spent the last three days of this mission in the echo lab, helping the cardiologist as she examines the hearts of children who make up what we like to call The Backlog.

It has been an interesting three days.

Each time we walk through the halls back to the echo room, we pass by dozens of anxious mothers, sitting, waiting, gripping their babies and hoping we’ll be the ones to bring them good news.

Family after family comes into the little room, puts their bundle onto the table and watches as the doctor probes their child’s chest. The older ones lay there patiently, but some of the younger ones aren’t so cooperative. Their parents try desperately to calm them down until the doctor finally has to give up and send them out for sedation.

It’s difficult to tell how effective the sedative will be. Sometimes the kids come back looking like a sack of potatoes while others come back just tired and angry. It doesn’t seem like the people administering the drugs have quite perfected the dosages.

A photo of the cutest little Iraqi girl ever getting screened at al-Sadr Hospital in Najaf, Iraq.
One little boy laid in his dad’s arms while the doctor tried to reach his chest, crying and crying, until he puked. That was gross. Another family drove hours to be there for the screening and then the child was so out of control he was sent away three times before the doctor finally managed to get a good look at his heart.

All-in-all, it’s been hectic. But it’s also been good for me to see first-hand how massive the need here is, and how much these parents love their children. The last little boy we saw today had been born with serious defects effecting his entire body, including his heart. The doctor explained to the translator why a surgery would be near impossible and the mother must have read it on her face because she started crying even before she understood what was being said.

So far, we’ve screened 45 children, and, considering we’re not even halfway through the mission yet, I’m sure we’ll see well beyond 100. Thanks for helping us screen and save these children, and come back tomorrow for an update on one you recently helped, little Zahraa!

Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

Cayla Willingham is Remedy Mission Coordinator and Family Advocate. When she isn't spending time with families, she enjoys cooking, hosting friends, haggling in local bazaars and souks, and learning local languages.

VIDEO: Update From The Operating Room— “Thank You!”

September 26, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

This is our final O.R. update for Remedy Mission XI in Najaf, and we can’t think of a better time to thank you for the lives you’ve helped save than right now! You made this a happy ending.

You gave money that bought plane tickets that led to training that saved lives and led to Iraqi doctors saying things like “I never imagined I would be learning to operate like this!”

So thank you!

Also, please allow us to use this space to thank our partners at Living Light International for their role in setting up this mission with the Ministry of Health and the provincial government of Najaf. We could not do this without their expertise and their devotion to the cause and their belief in the vision toward which we are moving. Also, we are grateful to the International Children’s Heart Foundation and their cadre of staff and volunteers from Memphis to Melbourne. None of the staff at PLC have any of the medical skills necessary to save these sweet children. Our hopes and our vision for the future of Iraq would be dead in the water without Dr. Novick and ICHF.

In the video, we also share a bit about Hussain and his progress as well as info on our fast-approaching Remedy Mission XII, where we’ll introduce you to even more amazing children in need of lifesaving heart surgery. You can donate below to partner with us further, and keep reading here on the blog—the best is yet to come.

Help us go back to Najaf to save more lives by donating below!






Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

VIDEO: Our Third Update From The Operating Room In Najaf

September 16, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

We’re back in Najaf for Remedy Mission XI, and the surgeries are well underway! Push play to hear our surgery count so far and how the local doctors are reacting to these fantastic training opportunities.

Keep watching to see updates of Hussain—we hear he’s in the hospital! This is the third of several operating room updates that we’ll be sending you, so keep watching and visit our Facebook page to see more photos from the hospital.


Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

VIDEO: Another Update From The O.R.—Meet Two Amazing Cardiologists!

September 12, 2012 by · Leave a Comment 

We’re back in Najaf for Remedy Mission XI, and the surgeries are underway!

Click the play button to meet our kind cardiologists (volunteers w/ the International Children’s Heart Foundation), and to hear more about their work so far.

Several children have now received operations and are doing well—we’ll introduce you to some of then soon.

This is the second of several operating room updates that we’ll be sending you, so keep watching and keep an eye on our Facebook page to see more!


Our Partners:
Living Light InternationalInternational Children's Heart Foundation

As Communication Director, Matt Willingham spends most of his time trying to get the word out on PLC's work in Iraq. On the side, he likes reading stories, devouring the great food his wife cooks up, and DSLR camera work. He's also mildly obsessed with Twitter: @mehtin.

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