Nivar is Clear to Return to Iraq with a Happy, Healthy Heart
July 26, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment

Everyone was cheers and smiles today when we found out that Nivar has been given a clean “fit to fly” bill of health. Initially she was cleared to go home to her mom, older brother, and brand new baby sister in Iraq on Thursday, but seat availability on the flight has caused us to push her back until Saturday. Still, this is the moment! This is the moment we work for so hard – to see these kids well enough to get on with their lives. To declare that they don’t need us anymore – at least not in the same way they once did.
We could not have done this without you. I hope you have enjoyed seeing Nivar go from her village in Iraq to heart surgery and back. With a sparse staff in Iraq for Fall 2010, we will probably not have very many updates on Nivar in the coming months. But we will do our best to keep you apprized.
She is planning on being back in school – with a healthy heart and lots of energy! – in September! You’ve made this happen. You’ve given her her life back. You’ve given her energy and a chance to make a difference in the world. You’ve given her family love and hope. We are overwhelmed today at your kindness and compassion and the solidarity you’ve shown with Nivar’s parents.
With you,

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This little boy, Yahya, still needs a few thousand dollars to cover the costs of surgery and travel from Iraq to Istanbul so he can experience the same life-change you’ve given Nivar. To take Yahya out of line and get him to Istanbul for surgery, please enter the amount of your choice below and click “Donate Now!”. |
Follow Nivar on Twitter: @NivarMohammed. Subscribe to Nivar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Nivar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Nivar Rests in ICU Extubated and Breathing on Her Own
July 23, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment

Friday was another great day of progress for Nivar. She is still in ICU due to a small chest infection, but she is breathing on her own and eating. As soon as the infection is cleared up, she will be transferred to her room upstairs. Stay tuned for more from Istanbul on Nivar’s progress…
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This little boy, Yahya, still needs a few thousand dollars to cover the costs of surgery and travel from Iraq to Istanbul so he can experience the same life-change you’ve given Nivar. To take Yahya out of line and get him to Istanbul for surgery, please enter the amount of your choice below and click “Donate Now!”. |
Follow Nivar on Twitter: @NivarMohammed. Subscribe to Nivar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Nivar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Photo of the (Yester)Day: Nivar Recovers in the Cardiac Intensive Care Unit
July 22, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment

While the risk of death and attendant complication associated with Nivar’s open heart surgery was estimated to be just 5%, there is still something that inside of us that say the human body should not be opened up and closed again; something that says that is excessively dangerous and causes us to hold our breath in anticipation of good news.
And that’s why this photo is so poignant. There is nothing as satisfying as hearing that your little one is out of surgery and that all went well and there is nothing like seeing her alive and well – all put back together again. Well, nothing except hearing that she’s being taken off of all the machinery and living entirely on her own… but that story is yet to come!
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This little boy, Yahya, still needs a few thousand dollars to cover the costs of surgery and travel from Iraq to Istanbul so he can experience the same life-change you’ve given Nivar. To take Yahya out of line and get him to Istanbul for surgery, please enter the amount of your choice below and click “Donate Now!”. |
Follow Nivar on Twitter: @NivarMohammed. Subscribe to Nivar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Nivar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Nivar’s Surgery Results in Total Correction!
July 21, 2010 by Jeremy · 1 Comment


After nearly 5 hours in surgery we heard the news that Nivar had received a total correction for her heart defect and was resting under heavy sedation in ICU. Here is how one of our volunteers and donors on site described the scene as her father rushed to hear the news:
Have you ever observed something that made you feel just a little more alive than you did the second before? The senses sharpen, everything else around you stops, and it seems as if the state of your very existence could hinge upon your understanding of that precise moment. Life all of a sudden becomes more valuable and hope of something unintelligible, unexplainable and far off fills your being from deep within. THIS is how I felt when I dodged a father running to see his daughter’s doctor following the completion of her open heart surgery…
In the post-op consult we learned that Nivar has been misdiagnosed and that her complication was more severe than originally thought. Once her chest was opened up Nivar was found to have a defect known as “Double Outlet Right Ventricle” in which both great arteries arise wholly or in large part from the right ventricle. Dr. Çiçek corrected her great arteries and patched a massive hole between the lower chambers of her heart and sent her on her way.
We were able to place three of our summer interns in surgery yesterday – two pre-med students and a photographer – which was a very rewarding experience for all involved. Above are two snapshots of what they experienced during surgery….
Nivar is resting in ICU right now. We deeply appreciate your generosity in seeking to save Nivar’s life and your attentiveness this week as we’ve posted updates on her progress each step of the way. Has she captured your heart? You should tell someone about it!
Please use the “Share This”, “Twitter box,” and “Facebook Comments” box below to spread the word about our work right now. A tweet, a Facebook “like,” or an email to a friend can go a long way toward helping us bring more kids like Yahya to surgery in a few weeks.
Follow Nivar on Twitter: @NivarMohammed. Subscribe to Nivar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Nivar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Nivar Goes in to Surgery After Endless Games of Patty-Cake
July 20, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
A hospital is a lonely place if you don’t have someone you love and trust to share it with. Nivar is here in Istanbul – away from her home and family and brand new baby sister in Iraq – with her dad. Dad’s are great for little girls… but let’s be honest… little girls need other girls!
It has been a tremendous ending to our Preemptive Love Summer Internship this week watching Lydia Bullock and all of our other interns give themselves to these kids and their parents as much as they can.
In the video above Lydia plays patty-cake again and again and again with little Nivar – which effectively staves off the worry and fear that could have easily set in as Nivar waited for surgery this morning. Her dad was worried and scared, but a little humility and willingness to meet a child on her own level meant that Nivar had nothing to fear.
Nivar went into surgery at 10 a.m. this morning… stay tuned for more updates on her progress….
Follow Nivar on Twitter: @NivarMohammed. Subscribe to Nivar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Nivar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Thoughts on Nivar, My Own Little Girl, and Injustice
July 20, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment
You know I have a daughter… she’s not quite Nivar’s age. But I have deeply enjoyed the years I’ve had with her. She has her own personality. We have our own little jokes. We have secret phrases that no one else understands. And she loves candy… especially suckers.
So while my daughter is safe at home with a fully functioning heart, I’m doubly burdened by the weight Nivar and her family have carried all these years. Why wasn’t she treated earlier? Why are there so few healthcare options in an oil-rich country like Iraq? Why was she born this way at all?
Did GOD do this? Did Saddam do this? Could we have done this?
These are things that I’m beginning to talk about with my daughter when we pray for little girls like Nivar.
One of the “heart surgery kids” my daughter became most attached to was a baby named Daryan we tried to save a year ago this week. He died. My daughter is remarkably unfazed by death. She still talks about Daryan and prays for him weekly.
Sometimes I wonder if I should I be more like her?
While Nivar’s dad steps outside to get a break and smoke a cigarette, I’m sitting here with Nivar alone in Istanbul thinking how much she’s like my little girl. Thinking about sending my daughter through those harrowing doors into heart surgery brings tears so easily. Every time I see these kids cry in the face of the unknown; every time I see them play through the discomfort; and every time I see them enjoy a sucker in the sunshine I remember that these dark shadows in which they live simply prove the existence of a blazing light; a better reality. Because for all the questions left unanswered in the face of injustice, we can agree that shadows prove the light.
Follow Nivar on Twitter: @NivarMohammed. Subscribe to Nivar’s updates via RSS HERE. Follow Nivar’s thread of longer stories (with pictures & video) on the PLC blog HERE.
Music courtesy The Autumn Film (http://theautumnfilm.com/)
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
An Interactive Graphic Overview of What We’ve Been Up to for the Last Few Years
August 23, 2009 by Jeremy · 486 Comments
Drag and drop and click and scroll and comment and push and play your way through some of our [online] activity from the last year.
Special Features of Note:
Be sure to Click on Map>Play Events for a Worldwide Conversation of Sorts Between Our Offices Around the World
View fullscreen below for more room to play around!
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Mohammed is Fit to Fly – Eager to See Mom, Brothers, & Sisters Tonight
August 6, 2009 by Jeremy · 8 Comments

After an extra week of scares related to malnutrition and potential neurological problems, Mohammed is discharged and ready to go home on tonight’s flight to Iraq. Mohammed is being released today with a total correction of his heart, and though doctors were unable to put a name on the remaining symptoms related his other congenital problems, doctors are quite sure that his brain is doing well and that it is not the cause of the other symptoms.
All this amounts to very good news for Mohammed and he is very likely to have a strong, healthy future!
Follow 11-year-old Mohammed on Twitter: @mohammedgaelan. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS here. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures) on the PLC blog here.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Mohammed Malnourished in ICU – Doctors Marvel at Obstinate Refusal to Eat
July 30, 2009 by Jeremy · 1 Comment



Follow 11-year-old Mohammed on Twitter: @mohammedgaelan. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS here. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures) on the PLC blog here.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |
Mohammed Recovering in ICU & Expected to Stay for a Few Days
July 25, 2009 by Jeremy · 7 Comments


Mohammed received a full correction from his TOF/DORV and is recovering in ICU. He’s expected to sleep on the medicine through the night when his dad will join him.
His dad cried great tears of joy and happiness (and probably not a little sadness) at seeing his son hooked up to the tubes in ICU. It’s a terribly mixed feeling of relief and grief to see your child, supposedly healed, hooked up to so many monitors and sedated so heavily.
Doctors are very happy and hopeful and “all is well” with Mohammed.
Follow 11-year-old Mohammed on Twitter: @mohammedgaelan. Subscribe to Mohammed’s updates via RSS here. Follow Mohammed’s thread of longer stories (with pictures) on the PLC blog here.
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Jeremy Courtney lives and loves in Iraq as a co-founder and Executive Director of the Preemptive Love Coalition. He's also the father of two spectacular children, and married to the lovely Jessica Courtney. When not absorbed in PLC work he can be found writing songs and singing about hope and future. Follow Jeremy on Twitter: @JCourt. |















