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Tikrit Wrap-Up—Watch To See How Many Heart Operations You Made Possible!

April 26, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

Reporting from our first-time mission in Tikrit is at an end, and the children are doing really well. The lead local cardiologist was giddy when he heard we are planning to come back.

Push play to see his reaction and the results of this historic mission!

And there wouldn’t be any celebration without The Haddock Family Foundation. As a family, they chose to underwrite the entire mission!

Haddocks, on behalf of the families, doctors, and nurses: thank you!

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Overcoming Tragedy—How Do You Do It?

April 25, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

Some weeks, it feels like the whole world is on fire.

Earthquakes, coups, murder trials… I couldn’t believe the updates moving across my screen as friends at the Boston Marathon updated in realtime.

We just finished Remedy Missions in two of the most bad-mouthed cities in the country: Tikrit and Fallujah. The headlines from the last decade might lead you to believe these places are full of sad faces, in a perpetual state of despondency.

But the Iraqi and American responses to tragedy aren’t that different: in the midst of fire, they are banding together, pressing on, and overcoming.

At every juncture, we encountered positive people who had weathered storms. Troops at checkpoints greeted us warmly, families moved in and out of hospital rooms to distribute medicine and pray for each other, and, of course, doctors and hospital staff provided life-changing operations for sixteen children!

You can get caught up on stories from our last two missions in Tikrit and Fallujah here.

But I would love for you to share your own story with me. How are you seeing beyond ‘the fire’ and staying positive when faced with bombings in Boston and explosions in West, TX?

Email me at your convenience. I would love to hear back from you


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Saving Lives, Sans Surgery—Why Diagnostics Are So Important

April 24, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo of a little girl discovering she was misdiagnosed and didn't need surgery.
The girl in this picture was misdiagnosed as a baby.

Her family thought she needed surgery. They waited and worked, wondering if their daughter’s heart would give out.

As she gazed at the image of her heart beating, her father shared how hopeful they were that their daughter would get well.

Minutes later, he got his wish. After years of carrying around the wrong diagnosis, his little girl had a healthy, defect-free heart all along.

We’ve introduced you to a lot of sick, blue children over the past 5 years, but we haven’t always shared stories of already-healthy children. Thanks to highly trained cardiologists like Dr. Kirk, Iraqi children are receiving top-notch diagnostics testing in the form of preliminary echos, TEEs, and diagnostic catheterizations.

“We don’t do as many diagnostic caths in the US as we used to because we catch most heart disease early, before we have concerns about operability. Internationally, the situation is much different,” Dr. Kirk explained.

Over a span of # years, Dr. Kirk has screened hundreds of children across Iraq, and they’re often well beyond the ideal age for diagnosing a heart problem.

“Many of the children we see are being diagnosed or considered for surgery at a time which is much later than what we see in the west. The diagnostic cath tells us if a child is appropriate for a surgery or if a child would probably live longer if we didn’t do anything. There are many children who we think are inoperable because of their age, but we take them to cath and find they are indeed a good candidate for surgical repair. In this case we’ve probably added years to their lives by getting them repaired.”

In short, good diagnostics inform decisions, illuminate the situation for doctors and in-the-dark family members, and they save lives.

A photo of sweet, smiley, Ismaa getting her diagnostic echo.“The diagnostic cath isn’t as exciting as an interventional procedure to most, because, even if the news is favorable for surgery, another procedure is still needed.

If we can get away from focusing on what’s done today and look at what was learned today and what is best for the child, we realize we positively change the lives of children with a diagnostic cath.

“Diagnostic caths either allow children to be repaired safely, or they prevent them from being harmed by surgery.”


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Save The Children, Lose My Soul?—How I’ve Failed The Children I’m Working To Serve

April 18, 2013 by · 4 Comments 

A photo of Israa getting her pre-op echo in Tikrit General Hospital.
Today I met a little girl named Israa.

That’s her up there with that soul-perceiving, Mona Lisa-gaze. You might be surprised to hear I wasn’t initially affected by her cute intensity (cutensity?). In retrospect, this was not the first time I’d simply snapped a photo of a child and moved on, emotion-free. Children that would have previously melted me on the inside had become… dare I say it—objects of charity.

Of course, I still want them to get well—I work for it every day—but the thrust of my compassion has taken a serious hit.

Attending six Remedy Missions, seeing waves of sick children held by desperate parents, and a dispiriting amount of post-operative death has taken a toll on my soul.

Our teams are now helping save more children then ever. But with every death, my emotional kevlar got a little thicker, and even the cutest kids like Israa couldn’t pierce it.

A photo of Israa getting an echo screening.
Is that really what we are aiming for? Hundreds of children whose lives are being saved by people who are barely affected as they serve? And, on a practical level, how can I do my job and connect you with these children if I’m not even connecting with them?

This is not the preemptive love we talk about, and, thankfully—while we do struggle at times—it isn’t a typical characteristic of our team.

But that’s just it—it’s a struggle. It has to be. Preemptive love takes risks for the sake of another. It stays vulnerable in the face of inevitable pain; it keeps compassion personal. And this applies to a lot more than just Iraqi children. Whether it’s your marriage, a friend struggling with addiction, or a tribe in the African bush, keeping compassion vulnerable takes work.

So back to my question: how do you continue to be vulnerable, emotionally present, and affected by those you’re seeking to love?

For my part, I’m committing to a few things: spending more time at the bedside of kids (without my camera), learning more kid-friendly Arabic phrases, and stuffing my bag with more play-things, like bubbles, Angry Birds and coloring books—and I want you to hold me to it!

A photo of Israa after her echo, surrounded by busy nurses and doctors.
And you? How do you keep from going numb, activating the defense mechanisms, or just giving up? What measures do you take?

Either comment below or email me—I’d love to hear from you!

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“He may only have days to live, but I think we can save him”— A Life Saved At The Last Minute

April 16, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo of Dr. Kirk Milhoan smiling at the horizon.
One of my favorite things about Dr. Kirk and his team is how big-hearted they are. Local families can sense the sincerity of their compassion, and it makes a big difference in the ‘feel’ of the mission.

It’s that same compassion, though, that had us crammed into an echo lab/storage closet at midnight last night, looking at children’s hearts, and it’s that compassion that kept admitting one more family for screening.

“Please, just help one more.” is a hard request to ignore when it’s shouted from a waiting room packed and pleading. In this case, the request came for a little boy named Abraham.

A photo of the echo lab team awaiting the next child in Tikrit, Iraq.
Scratching his chin, Abe’s uncle tried to remember when it started: “For about two months we were basically living in the hospital.”

The entire family rallied around this little boy as he spent nearly two months in the hospital, struggling to breathe. The doctor in Abe’s hometown told the family he had a lung problem, and that Abe might need ‘new lungs’—something the family didn’t really understand and something they certainly couldn’t afford.

When a friend told them about our Remedy Mission in Tikrit, Abe’s family decided to get a second opinion. Unfortunately, Abe missed the cut and was scheduled for a check-up on the next mission. It was nearly 1am last night when both the list and the doctors were exhausted, and they decided to pack up for the night.

But the local doctors pleaded, “There’s just one more little boy. Will you please see him?” Dr. Kirk relented.

Abe’s family carried him in, and Dr. Kirk was shocked by what he found.

A photo of Dr. Kim cradling Abe's head before his procedure in Tikrit, Iraq.
Abe had huge amounts of fluid in his chest that was pressing on his lungs and making his heart work too hard.

Dr. Mary, the interventional cardiologist on the team, worked with local doctors to successfully drain the fluid around Abe’s heart. “I don’t think he had more than 2-3 days to live—I think he’s the reason God has us here this week.” she said after.

On behalf of Abe and his elated parents: thank you. You’re saving lives.

A photo of Dr. Kirk and Dr. Kim lifting Abe off of the operating table.

A photo of a little Iraqi girl in need of surgery, holding her daddy's hand. Give now to bring hope to more children like Abe!


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Pioneering Tikrit’s First Medical Training Mission Since Saddam’s Fall

April 14, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

Ten years ago Saddam fell, and everything changed in Iraq.

Not overnight in every place, of course. But it was obvious that former favorites were out of luck. Tikrit, Saddam’s hometown, was one of these favored cities that benefited under the former regime, but people here are now experiencing something like reverse discrimination as other cities to the south and north receive more patronage.

But you’re helping us change that this week. Omar, a seven year old boy, just became the first child to have his heart fixed locally, barely having to leave home.

While Omar rests, we’re sitting down with his father to hear a little more of their story. A lot of parents dream of their children becoming exceptional, but Omar’s dad is just grateful that his son will now be ‘normal.’ He can finally do things kids are supposed to do, without the risk.

Keep reading, we’ll have more updates for you from Tikrit coming soon.


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No Holding Back—Dr. Mohammed Finally Gets His Chance!

April 12, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

Dr. Mohammed waving for the camera after the first-ever pediatric cardiac cath in the Salah ad Din Province of Iraq.
Dr. Mohammed, the cardiologist-in-training here in Tikrit, just assisted in the region’s first-ever pediatric catheterization.

He was shaking with excitement after finishing!

The lead interventionalist, Dr. Mary, handled the lion’s share of the teaching, and she can now add “Tikrit” to her list of groundbreaking procedures. She has performed similar ‘first-evers’ in Fallujah, Mongolia, and Kosovo, in addition to the work she does in the United States.

The echo team in Tikrit General Hospital.
We talk a lot about children who don’t have options for surgery, but the same is true of many Iraqi doctors. Dr. Mohammed shared told us, “There is no way for me to do this without teams coming to Tikrit. I am very happy to have the team here.”

So thank you for sending tremendous teachers like Dr. Mary to train Dr. Mohammed—they’re making history!

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Like Freshly-Fallen Snow—Why I Love First-Time Remedy Missions In A New City

April 12, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

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I’m in Tikrit, Iraq—the small, “home base” city for strongman/dictator Saddam Hussein—for Preemptive Love Coalition’s 18th Remedy Mission.

As we pulled into the city last night, we were stopped at the main checkpoint gate to the city by a few friendly, welcoming Iraqi national police. They apologized for the inconvenience and the necessary delay, but they had to be sure to fully document our arrival into the city and ensure that we had the proper permissions and escorts to enter in. 

As we sat between the massive concrete and sandbag barriers, I got out of the taxi to talk to the police, government officials, and local doctors who had arrived from the nearby hospital to welcome our team. Standing there at sunset, laughing with new friends on the eve of a history-making healing mission, I couldn’t help but be overwhelmed with this simple thought: 

“I love new beginnings!”

I got back in the taxi and said something to that effect to the rest of my team. “I love first Remedy Missions—program launches in new cities where we’ve never worked before.” 

One of the visiting nurses asked what I liked so much about them. With Tikrit being the sixth city in which we’ve worked to launch long-term surgical development programs, I rattled off this list: 

—newness
—naivety 
—the belief that this time will be better than everything we’ve done in every other city to date
—the smiles and hospitality
—the sense among so many that these healing missions stand for so much more than heart surgery
—the hope
—the hustle and bustle of trying to make things that are broken work again (or for the first time)
—the possibility

Preemptive love is a critique of the status quo. Preemptive love says “This is not good enough.” Preemptive love says, “With God’s grace, we can be changed. And if we can be changed, then we can change our city, our country, and our world.”

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Highlights From Our Remedy Mission XVI

April 2, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

Photo of one of the last children to get surgery in Najaf, Iraq.

Today is the last day of our Remedy Mission here in Najaf!

We still have a full day’s work before we head home tomorrow, but here are some highlights as we wrap up Remedy Mission XVI.

—Getting to meet Hama, Kadeeja, Musa, Ali, Diya, Shakir, Mohammed, Noor, Zainab, Zahara, Mahdi, and Yousef. All twelve of those children received lifesaving operations this trip!

—Watching one of our local heart surgeons completely correct a heart defect – without any help!

—Witnessing our cardiologists screen close to 200 more children.

—Sitting down with the local medical team to talk about longterm development and the training they want to receive this next year.

—Being overwhelmed by the gratitude and joy expressed by all the families of those we served this mission.

Thank you so much for making this mission possible.

I’ve said this before, but we haven’t provided a single heart surgery in Iraq apart from the support and generosity of others.

You give; a child is saved; peace is waged. It’s a cycle we can’t continue without you, so thank you!

As soon as I leave here, we’ll start preparing for two more Remedy Missions this month in the cities of Fallujah and Tikrit.

You can be a part of the community that makes those operations possible by donating a few dollars below.

Peace from Najaf.

A photo of a little Iraqi girl in need of surgery, holding her daddy's hand. Give now to bring hope to families in Tikrit!

Hama Is On His Way Home (Finally!)

March 30, 2013 by · Leave a Comment 

A photo of an ICU nurse taking note of the patient list.
This afternoon, Hama gets to pack his bags and walk out of the hospital with a fixed heart.

He gets to leave behind the surgeons, the nurses, and the heart defect that almost took his life. Now he gets to go home with his mom and dad, breathe a little bit easier, and start to experience life without a heart defect.

Hama’s dad said it best when he emphatically said, “thank you, thank you, thank you!”

Thank you helping save Hama’s life.

There hasn’t been one heart surgery in Iraq that didn’t have the backing of others.

You continue to make all the difference for these children.

Meanwhile, the operating team hasn’t slowed down. They’ve already saved 9 lives and they’re hoping to save another 3 more before we wrap up the mission!


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