Like Freshly-Fallen Snow—Why I Love First-Time Remedy Missions In A New City
April 12, 2013 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment

I’m in Tikrit, Iraq—the small, “home base” city for strongman/dictator Saddam Hussein—for Preemptive Love Coalition’s 18th Remedy Mission.
As we pulled into the city last night, we were stopped at the main checkpoint gate to the city by a few friendly, welcoming Iraqi national police. They apologized for the inconvenience and the necessary delay, but they had to be sure to fully document our arrival into the city and ensure that we had the proper permissions and escorts to enter in.
As we sat between the massive concrete and sandbag barriers, I got out of the taxi to talk to the police, government officials, and local doctors who had arrived from the nearby hospital to welcome our team. Standing there at sunset, laughing with new friends on the eve of a history-making healing mission, I couldn’t help but be overwhelmed with this simple thought:
“I love new beginnings!”
I got back in the taxi and said something to that effect to the rest of my team. “I love first Remedy Missions—program launches in new cities where we’ve never worked before.”
One of the visiting nurses asked what I liked so much about them. With Tikrit being the sixth city in which we’ve worked to launch long-term surgical development programs, I rattled off this list:
—newness
—naivety
—the belief that this time will be better than everything we’ve done in every other city to date
—the smiles and hospitality
—the sense among so many that these healing missions stand for so much more than heart surgery
—the hope
—the hustle and bustle of trying to make things that are broken work again (or for the first time)
—the possibility
Preemptive love is a critique of the status quo. Preemptive love says “This is not good enough.” Preemptive love says, “With God’s grace, we can be changed. And if we can be changed, then we can change our city, our country, and our world.”
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Highlights From Our Remedy Mission XVI
April 2, 2013 by Cody · Leave a Comment

Today is the last day of our Remedy Mission here in Najaf!
We still have a full day’s work before we head home tomorrow, but here are some highlights as we wrap up Remedy Mission XVI.
—Getting to meet Hama, Kadeeja, Musa, Ali, Diya, Shakir, Mohammed, Noor, Zainab, Zahara, Mahdi, and Yousef. All twelve of those children received lifesaving operations this trip!
—Watching one of our local heart surgeons completely correct a heart defect – without any help!
—Witnessing our cardiologists screen close to 200 more children.
—Sitting down with the local medical team to talk about longterm development and the training they want to receive this next year.
—Being overwhelmed by the gratitude and joy expressed by all the families of those we served this mission.
Thank you so much for making this mission possible.
I’ve said this before, but we haven’t provided a single heart surgery in Iraq apart from the support and generosity of others.
You give; a child is saved; peace is waged. It’s a cycle we can’t continue without you, so thank you!
As soon as I leave here, we’ll start preparing for two more Remedy Missions this month in the cities of Fallujah and Tikrit.
You can be a part of the community that makes those operations possible by donating a few dollars below.
Peace from Najaf.
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3 Invitations For You From Our Board Chairman
February 12, 2013 by matt · Leave a Comment
Friends and Supporters of the Preemptive Love Coalition,
Almost four years ago, I traveled to Iraq as a donor to get a personal look at the work of Preemptive Love Coalition. I wanted to see and experience the stories first-hand—to meet the children who needed lifesaving heart surgeries and to see how I could help. My life has been forever changed.
Since then, I’ve been honored to serve alongside PLC’s Board of Directors as the Board Chairman. In my role, I see the behind-the-scenes ways in which the team is seeking excellence and making difficult decisions. I’m also humbled to hear of the sacrifices that many of you have made to make Preemptive Love successful.
In 2012, with your investments, we have:
- —celebrated our 300th operation
- —launched work in the city of Fallujah
- —established our year-round Remedy Fellowship—the #1 surgical training program in Iraq
- —continued our singular work in four cities across Iraq
- —strengthened relationships with our excellent partners, The International Children's Heart Foundation, Living Light International, and For Hearts & Souls
As we look forward to 2013, we are making every effort to add 2-3 cities to that mix (Mosul, Tikrit, Baghdad).
As a leadership team we strive to be transparent, accountable, and direct. I invite you to visit our Impact Page to read Remedy Mission, Annual and Failure Reports.
I also invite you to stay connected to the stories of the children whose lives you are changing. As a father of three young boys, the more I know about the children we serve, the more my heart aches and rejoices. Please take two minutes to celebrate our 300th operation here.
And, of course, I invite you to continue to invest and to make an impact. As someone who personally invests money into this work, I know first-hand how valued and well-spent your gift will be.
Sincerely,
David Statham
Chairman of the Board
Preemptive Love Coalition
Zombies, Baby Blood, And The Call of Duty To Love Our Neighbor
January 22, 2013 by matt · Leave a Comment

I fidgeted on my stool, trying to focus in spite of the noise.
Off-duty doctors huddled nearby. They were glued to a Jason Statham movie, awaiting his next kill.
My stomach churned. Between the cigarettes and the high-volumed intensity characteristic of blown out Iraqi speakers, I honestly couldn’t take one more head-shot.
BANG!
The one-liner is delivered and my friends rumble their approval, scooting their chairs closer to the flat-screen. I snapped my computer lid shut and retreated—nauseated—as more thunder echoed be behind me.

Half an hour later, I stood in an O.R. filming doctors as they pulled blood from a beautiful baby boy named Abdul before his heart operation. In a way, Abdul’s blood and shrieking made Statham’s flick seem gore-free, but arriving in the O.R. actually helped settle my stomach.
Somehow this was different, and I began to realize it wasn’t about blood.
It was the violence.
All of this happened on my fourth day in the city of Fallujah—the medical mission progressed, and spirits were high. But I couldn’t stop thinking about my physiological reaction to that movie. It’s hard to pin-point why, exactly, but my body and mind can no longer handle violent media.

Photo Credit: “Six Days In Fallujah“, Atomic Games
In college, violent movies and games like Call of Duty never really affected me—they were just fun past-times. But something about being in Fallujah, with all its bombed-out buildings and birth defects… it got too real, too fast.
During research for a video I was making, I watched a ton of archived footage from the battles that happened in Fallujah. The helmet-mounted cameras made the killings almost indistinguishable from my favorite 1st person shooter games—except these were real.
The snarky comments made by soldiers, the way both sides treated prisoners and dead bodies, and all the blood. So much blood. Nobody was respawning after these fights—no ‘extra lives.’
I want to be clear: this post is not about boycotting anything—I’m not saying we should all go tee up our action movies and XBOX games and golf club them to oblivion.
I’m just asking a simple question: at what point have we lost touch with reality? At what point did I lose touch?
As a person who strives to follow Jesus Christ and his teachings, I look at the “Sermon on the Mount” and wonder how I got where I am. Jesus stood up and taught radical enemy-love, pain-absorption over pain-reciprocation, and the happiness of peacemakers. Am I training myself toward those things?
Am I preparing my heart to love the limbless family members who brought their sick, war-stricken children into the hospital for surgery? What if their child dies in the ICU and they blame or even try to hurt me—how have I prepared myself to respond?
Or what about the suicidal American solders—more of whom have died at home than on the battle field—am I ready to love them, given the chance?
This is what we mean when we say “preemptive love,” and, if it doesn’t cost me anything, I have to wonder whether it’s even real.
During a recent gaming spree, my wife asked me, “Is ‘Nazi Zombie Mode’ just an excuse to kill things without feeling bad?” She was right, I want it both ways.
Writing endless blog posts that call people to love their perceived enemies while using a broken-off bayonet to hack mine to pieces in a video game really doesn’t add up, regardless of whether or not the game is ‘real.’

Photo Credit: Karim Sahib, AFP
When you think of Fallujah, you might remember the murdered mercenaries in 2004. How did you react when you saw the charred bodies?
With that in mind, don’t you find it disturbing how excited my Muslim friends in Fallujah were by the heart-numbing gore on the screen in front of them?
Don’t you find it disturbing how many Christians in America enjoy the same kinds of entertainment?
What can we do to prepare ourselves to love when it’s difficult? I would encourage you to start by considering the paraphrased teaching from Jesus below—how far should we take these words? Then email me your thoughts, or connect with me via PLC’s Twitter and Facebook accounts. If you disagree, please share why—I promise not to attack you with a broken-off bayonet.
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“You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves.”
Chatting With A Local Hero—An Interview With Dr. Firas (Part II)
January 15, 2013 by matt · Leave a Comment

Cardiac training programs live or die by the initiative of the local doctors.
Ultimately, this is their program—an investment in them. As soon as they lose their passion to learn, coordinate, and hack through the red tape, the program is in trouble.
Perhaps that is why our time in Fallujah has been so encouraging. Dr. Firas (pronounced fee-rahs) is the only pediatric cardiologist in the Anbar region—Iraq’s largest geographic region and home to a growing number of children with heart problems.
So, given his kindness and compassion for these children, we asked him if he would share a little about his life, his concerns, and his hopes for the future of Fallujah.
(Read part one of this interview here.)
PLC: If you don’t mind, would you share about your life and work during the war?
Dr. Firas: Yes, I was in Baghdad working as a general pediatrician—I have two PhDs that allow me to work in these fields, one in general pediatrics and one in pediatric cardiology. But my family was here in Fallujah at first. So I moved them to Syria and I lived here in Iraq alone to complete my studies and care for children.
PLC: Some might assume you wouldn’t want to work with Americans after the things you experienced—has that been difficult?
Dr. Firas: I believe there are political issues, and there are the American people. I know many of the Americans don’t support what happened here in Fallujah. I know politicians aren’t the same as all the people—there is a difference. Of course, I am not happy about everything that happened during the war. But I’ve seen your team twice now in Fallujah, and you are trying to help our people.
You all give a different view of Americans. Of course, many people have anger in their hearts, but I know that these great amounts of congenital defects are because of the war and the chemical weapons [sic]. About 50% of the congenital heart defects [in Iraq] are in Anbar, our region, and most of those are in Fallujah. It is widely thought by our people that these are because of the war.
PLC: That “different view of Americans” is something we care deeply about. It’s great that you see these missions as opportunities for peacemaking as well. Today was the final case of the mission. Would you tell us a little about that? I know you were excited.
Dr. Firas: Today, we helped a small child by closing a hole in her heart. It took us nearly an hour just to get inside—it was so difficult. But it was amazing how immediately her system pressures rose and everything improved. It was a very satisfying operation because the child was close to death and our fix helped her immediately.
PLC: Do you feel like you could do corrections like this by yourself yet?
Dr. Firas: For now, no. I don’t have surgical back-up to assist me if something goes wrong. But… I must do something. So I choose the most simple cases and prepare them for our surgical missions. Then we can do them during the missions.
As I said, I also don’t have any help—I’m alone—and I must have other doctors to help guide me as I make the correction. I am hoping to recruit more Iraqis to come train with me. In all of Iraq, though, we only have thirteen child heart doctors. They are very rare here. This year, we had 12 new people applied for adult cardiology, but only two applied for pediatric. Working with children is much more difficult and stressful.
PLC: God-willing, more doctors will come alongside you, and the backlog of children who need surgery will be a distant memory. Thank you for sharing with us.
Dr. Firas: Insha’allah, I really hope so. Thank you.
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Dr. Firas’ dream of establishing a heart center in Fallujah is possible, and we intend to do whatever we can to help him fulfill it! If you would like to contribute to the training and life-saving that is happening here, please donate below:
$5 or $50—Give what you can to help Dr. Firas save lives!
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“Like Landing On The Moon”—Iraqi Doctors Make History In Fallujah!
January 13, 2013 by matt · Leave a Comment
Iraqis in the western province of Anbar just crossed another heart defect off of their “incurable” list. Our team stood by to support as Dr. Firas and his team corrected a defect that had never been fixed in this region of Iraq.
Little Aya, a 4-year-old with a sweet disposition, was born in Fallujah just a few years after the Iraq War’s deadliest battles. Like so many children in her region, she had a heart defect and no hope for help.
But you’ve already heard that story several times over.
What you may not have heard is that many families in Fallujah have decided to avoid pregnancy because of how many children are now born with birth defects.
Living life with no children—this is no small decision in a progeny-focused culture like Iraq’s. Children are a source of great pride, glory, and honor, and choosing to abstain from child-bearing is a big deal. Some parents I spoke with said they wouldn’t take the risk of having a child unless they knew there were doctors who could provide treatment, and that’s a part of the reason why we’re here.
These surgical missions represent much more than a handful of lifesaving operations—though they’re definitely that. These are about offering solutions and hope to families in need. When mothers and fathers are too afraid to have children because of rampant birth defects and no available treatment, that’s a problem that demands a remedy.
Thankfully, Aya’s heart received a total correction thanks to Dr. Firas and the team, and there are many more still waiting. Hopefully she is the first of many!
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5 Children You Helped Save In 2012
January 8, 2013 by matt · Leave a Comment
My favorite thing about January?
It’s the only month when it just feels right to look back and to plan ahead. A backward glance helps us remember what God has done during the previous year and all that we’ve learned, while a look forward offers hope for betterment and an opportunity to grow.
And who doesn’t love a clean slate—an opportunity to jumpstart things in a new direction? I’m here to tell you, though, that you did some pretty fantastic stuff last year. If your friend is bragging about their new job or some kind of shiny new gadget, please read this part out loud: “I helped save lives last year.”
Is there someone near you right now? Grab their sleeve and say it again, “I helped save lives last year.”
In 2012, you guys raised money, hosted parties, and spread the word on behalf of Iraqi children. There are children alive now who would not be—you’re heroes!
So—in case you didn’t get to meet them all—here are a few of the children you helped save in 2012:

1) Hussain—I don’t know who came up with the “don’t play favorites with kids” rule, but they obviously haven’t met this boy. I’ve adored him since our first game of “air soccer,” and the first thing I try to plan when we return to Najaf is try to plan a visit to see him and his family. He’s a sweet, sweet child and—thanks to you and the Coalition—he is now home and fully alive. Read his whole story here.

2) Yousef—our 2012 vote for the Most Pinchable Cheeks Award, Yousef received a heart operation at our groundbreaking Remedy Mission X in Fallujah. If you haven’t seen some of his adorable facial expressions yet, do yourself a favor.

3) Zahraa—Sweet, solemn Zahraa. I tracked with her from beginning to end, right up until she carried her dollies into the hospital elevator and went home. Click here to watch our video shorts of her trip through the hospital.

4) Hassin—don’t be fooled by his drooping eye lids and ridiculous eye-lashes, Hassin is sneaky. When the doctors told him he couldn’t eat or drink anything before his surgery, he snuck past his family, out of his hospital room, and down 6 flights of stairs to demand that the snack vendor give him food. His parents found him pounding his fists and declaring, “I need to eat or I’ll die!” I’m happy to report that, after his surgery, he snacked to his healthy heart’s content. See more of Hassin here.

5) Maddy—the 300th child you’ve helped us save, this little boy is sunshine incarnate. I still stand by my claim that he’s the smiliest, most pleasant little boy you’ll ever meet. If you missed the excitement of his landmark surgery, check it out here (the video was especially fun to make!).
2012 was pretty amazing, and 2013 is looking even better. Stick with us as things get started—our 15th surgical mission is coming up in Fallujah!
Kisses, Crayons, And Bubbles—A Look Back On Our Week In Fallujah
August 21, 2012 by Kendelyn · Leave a Comment

Uncertainty is a way of life here.
When it comes down to it, the answer to questions is often “I don’t know.” This was the answer I got when I asked whether or not I’d be going to Fallujah for Remedy Mission X last July. The problem wasn’t the lack of communication, the real challenge, for me, was the inability to create expectations (and therefore plans) of any kind. It’s often difficult to gauge what a mission is going to look like, especially when the mission is a first-of-its-kind in a new city. And, since Fallujah was a first-ever, it was guaranteed to have bumps along the way. Embracing this fact, I made sure to walk into the week with an open mind.
I’d heard a lot about Fallujah over the years, but most importantly I knew that the city had experienced a lot of pain and difficulty, and all I wanted to do was make it better—somehow. But how? How could I, a 20 year old from America, be able to make any difference in such a big, broken place so far from home?
The more I pondered this question, the more my response made sense to me: I can make a difference by endeavoring to love everyone I come into contact with. But that begs the question: “how do I show my love for these people when I’ve barely just met them?” I strived to find an answer to this question all week.
And the week was a blur!

Children were in and out of the operating room faster than I thought possible. But with the intention to love in the back of my mind at all times, I moved forward in my interactions with the children and their families filled with as much purpose and love as I could muster. I made sure not to let my fatigue and frustration show, and I made sure to have a smile on my face at all times. I was there to be a friendly face and bearer of joy as I documented the mission with my camera.
Looking back, I can barely recall how exhausted I was that week as the experiences of love and joy stand out far more prominently in my mind. The doctors loved the children, the children loved their parents, and the parents loved the doctors.
As love is put into the world, love circles back around. It begets itself.

In the course of a week I took hundreds of photos. Photos of everything from the children hanging out in pre-op to the doctors working in the cath lab. But out of all the images that I took in the course of the week the ones that stand out the most to me are the ones of kisses, crayons, and bubbles—not because they’re the cutest images of the week, but because they best exemplify the love that filled the hospital. The very same love that I tried to foster all week.
But all of that effort made by our team and the local doctors is just a drop in the bucket. Fallujah is still a broken city in need of attention and love, and the past still matters. But if we can continue to push ourselves toward selflessness over and over and over again, mission after mission, then I believe we’ll be able to create a future filled with love towards one another.
I believe we can reshape old perceptions previously founded on hate.

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Guest Post—Dr. Kim Milhoan Shares About Her Experience In Fallujah
August 16, 2012 by Craig · Leave a Comment
On our recent Remedy Mission X in Fallujah, we were privileged to work alongside Drs. Kirk and Kim Milhoan. Dr. Kirk, one of the most traveled and experienced cardiologists in the world, brought a team of 6 Americans to Fallujah last week and provided 12 Iraqi children with an operation—it was an incredible success!
We had such a great time working with the team that we’ve asked them to share a little about their experience, and Dr. Kim Milhoan has graciously obliged. Keep reading below…
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So, I’d be absolutely lying if I said I wasn’t nervous about this trip. Everyone who reads my writing prior to this trip knows that I spent the week really asking God for what He is trying to teach me. And often I find the lesson is very different from what I thought it would be.
By the time I arrived in Fallujah, I was actually excited for the honor and opportunity to step out in faith. In my mind, this had never been required of me to this level, where I truly thought my personal security and safely could be at risk. Here comes the part where I absolutely praise our Fallujan hosts: they have gone out of their way to protect us with constant armed guards, armored vehicles, etc. I never felt unsafe.
I believe that all of man’s defenses are ultimately penetrable, but they did everything in their power to keep us safe. They were gracious, welcoming, generous, and concerned for our every need and comfort. I could relax. And, as strange as it might seem, this confused me. I was actually looking forward to a difficult week of utter reliance on God. I realized how quickly I can revert to reliance on man.

The same is true in our care for the children. We’ve done this a lot. We’ve gotten good at making the best of less-than-ideal-circumstances. Once again, I began to rely on my skills or supplies rather than on God’s provision. So if I wasn’t exercising utter reliance on the Lord for safety or for patient outcomes, I was at least being a good witness for the Lord in whom I believe. It’s like the bible says, “they will know we are Christians by our love.”
We can laugh as a team because we’ve been doing this together so long that we know each other’s idiosyncrasies, weaknesses, and hot buttons. I’m sure mine are quite evident to my teammates. After we finished our five days of twelve caths and all the children were doing well, we were treated to a trip to the province Governor’s house late one evening. What an amazing caravan we were part of, absolutely impossible to describe! On the way home I was reflecting on all these things. I was disappointed in myself for not relying on the Lord like I wanted, for not praying without ceasing like I thought I should, and for failing to let His light shine through me. Then one of my favorite verses in the Bible (Injil) came to mind:
But we have this treasure in plain, earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of God and not from ourselves.
It brought tears to my eyes. It’s not about me. I’m so “earthen” and limited, and so I fail. But the power to heal and love is God’s, not mine—thank God!
Once again I’m astounded by the freedoms I enjoy. No one chooses the country they’re born in. I was born into opportunity and choice. I’ve been given the gift of privilege and position. I can choose to be courageous and go and visit and hopefully help, serve, love, and encourage those who find themselves in completely different circumstances not of their choosing.
I pray we have the opportunity to bless and be blessed by the Fallujan people many more times to come.
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Meet The People Who Made Remedy Mission X In Fallujah Possible!
July 24, 2012 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment

Remedy Mission X in Fallujah is over, but the exhaustion of it all doesn’t compare to the overwhelming joy I feel right now.
Given Fallujah’s history and our team’s desire to bless and serve the city, we’re humbled by what just happened. Think about it: 7 lifesaving operations, performed by an American team (6 of which were women), in one of the most war-torn, challenging cities in Iraq. And not only did they invite us back for 4 more trips in 2013, but we were also invited to work in a new city!
This kind of work just isn’t possible without an entire coalition of people, so, if you’ll allow us a moment, I’d like to point out those responsible for this historic Remedy Mission:
I’ll start with you. We make it a priority to remind you of your role in all of this because some people—not you!—are prone to forget what they’re capable of. Seriously, though, this work doesn’t happen without a continued grass-roots effort. People like you gave up their birthdays, gave monthly, and held fundraisers to make sure kids in Fallujah got the operations they need to live healthy, happy lives. You are essential.
This also couldn’t have happened without the talented local doctors at Fallujah General Hospital, who went above-and-beyond to make us feel comfortable and safe, and the incomparable Nahoko Takato and her Japanese partners, who gave $14,000 toward making this mission happen. Our partner organizations were also essential: Living Light International, our cultural compass; and Dr. Kirk Milhoan and his medical team of For Hearts And Souls volunteers.
All of these groups work tirelessly to make sure Iraqi children get their shot at a healthy heart, and we’re honored to work alongside them!
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The work in Fallujah is finished for now, but our yearlong Remedy Fellowship program starts a week from today!
Our partner doctors are foregoing frequent flyer miles and, instead of constant travel back-and-forth, are moving here! Dr. William Novick and his team of International Children’s Heart Foundation volunteers are coming to LIVE in southern Iraq for a year!
In preparation for our upcoming year of training and life-saving, we’re raising money for medical supplies, one of which is listed below. Please consider funding sutures, and our doctors will use them to mend hearts!
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Our 85 suture kits are FULLY funded — Thank you for helping fund $765 worth of medical supplies! |
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