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An Entire Village Waits For Fatima

December 9, 2010 by Cody · Leave a Comment 

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Meet Fatima and her grandmother.
Fatima is five years old and lives in a small village in southern Iraq. They say that it takes a village to raise a child. This couldn’t be more accurate for Fatima and if the childrens’ ward could hold a village in the waiting room, they would be there.
Fatima’s story is identical to Ahmed’s, Ritha’s, and Haydar’s, in that they were all born with a heart defect and all their parents were told the same thing, that their child couldn’t be helped in Iraq. They could always send Fatima overseas to be treated but that alone could cost tens of thousands of dollars. Even for an entire village, that cost is too high.

But thankfully for Fatima and dozens of others that are here in the hospital waiting for surgery, another “village” sent their doctors and nurses over to help. But even that “village” couldn’t have gone on their own because the costs were too high. That’s why it took a global village to help make Fatima’s wait in the childrens’ ward a reality.

So from one village to another, Fatima and her grandmother can’t even put in words how grateful they are for people out there who care.

People who care enough to give. People who care enough to come.

On behalf of all of us at Preemptive Love, thanks for saving Fatima today.

Stay tuned…

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Remedy Missions are international pediatric heart surgery teams that we bring to Iraq to perform lifesaving heart surgeries and develop the infrastructure for the future. This Remedy Mission is made possible by the Vice President of Iraq, Living Light International, and the International Children’s Heart Foundation. If you’re on Twitter this week be sure to use the #RemedyMission hashtag to describe all the good news coming out of Iraq via @preemptivelove and @babyheart_org. If you’re on Facebook, “Share” this story with the button below.

“They Even Have to Borrow Their Toys”: Family Advocacy in Iraq

May 18, 2010 by Joshua · Leave a Comment 

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Yousif is a six year old boy in need of heart surgery. He lives in a small village about three hours from our office in Iraq. Like so many of the children we meet, Yousif is slowly dying from a hole in his heart and his family has come to us for help. We are hoping to provide him with surgery this fall, and so today Jessica, Awara and I took a trip to visit with them, assess their family situation, and discuss details of his prospective surgery.

With brother

After being greeted at the door by the parents and eight of their ten children, we were brought inside and were overwhelmed with greetings and welcomes.  Home visits are one of my favorite parts of working here but it’s always hard to sit in a living room when so many kids stand right outside the window waiting to play! I usually excuse myself from these meetings to go play with the kids.

I’ve learned through past home visits that the best way to connect with these kids is through a soccer ball, so I asked if they want to play. But these kids just looked down to the ground, and told me with sad faces they didn’t have one. I think their sadness was rooted partly in disappointing their guest, but also in a sincere desire for a soccer ball of their own.

SwingingSo there we were – all eight of us – standing awkwardly by the door, until an older sister grabbed Yousif, carried him to the swing, and told me, “OK! OK!” while motioning for me to take his photo. I couldn’t help but laugh.

I’m not sure why – maybe because I hoped the answer had changed in the last 30 seconds – but I asked again if they had a soccer ball. This time Yousif ran to the gate and disappeared outside, leaving me a bit confused. He came back with a huge smile on his face and presented me with a prize: the neighbor’s soccer ball.
They even need to borrow their toys.

Running to Gate

I shared in his joy, smiled with him, and put my camera down to begin forming soccer teams. This, however, was unacceptable for one of the sisters, that I would put my camera on their dusty ground. With such respect, she picked it up and held it for me. I was struck by her kindness. I taught her how to use it, and she stayed on the sidelines, perfectly content to photograph our game on a make-shift field of rocks, mud and roots.

This was the breaking point – the point of home visits I so love. I was no longer just the foreigner, just the person to gaze at and offer their heartfelt service and respect. I was a friend. (Or to those not on my team, the big guy they had to stop from scoring!) Either way, a bond had formed and we played and played in the heat until our faces dripped with sweat and mud and dirt covered our shoes, laughing as our silly game of soccer progressed.

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Luckily for our team, I was called back inside for tea right after we gave up four goals in a row. We paused the game. Jessica and Awara finished up their conversations with the parents, and we got up to leave. This was by far, one of the best home visits I’ve been on. I love these kids already, and cant wait to visit them again.

Shwan Is Growing So Fast Now That His Heart is Repaired!

April 29, 2010 by Jeremy · Leave a Comment 

Village Family Visit After Child Receives Heart Surgery
Photo by Heber Vega

It’s been awhile since we visited Shwan in his village near Ranya in northern Iraq after sending him to a much-needed surgery in May 2009. He has officially “graduated” from our Family Followthrough program and has grown a great deal, re-engaged in school, and increased his activity out in the streets and parks with other boys his age. He’s a soccer (football) fanatic – he even brought his favorite trading cards with him to surgery last May!

The free flow of oxygenated blood throughout his body now that the hole in his heart has been closed has allowed for much more physical energy and brain energy. He seems to really enjoy school now – his father is a mathematics teacher!

We do not do our work her so that we will be thanked or praised. But it sure does feel nice when people appreciate the efforts expended on their behalf and for their well-being. That’s one of the reasons that it is such a joy to visit Shwan’s family: they are genuinely grateful and it shows.

Village Family Visit After Child Receives Heart Surgery
Photo by Heber Vega

The occasion for our visit had a lot to do with our friend Lawan Hawizy in London and his efforts to run in the Paris Semi Marathon to raise money for other kids like Shwan. Lawan’s brother, Salan, traveled with us to inspect our work and our relationships with the families so that he could help inform Lawan’s fundraising efforts and work himself as a Kurd in northern Iraq to raise money for some of these children. After our visit Lawan went on to run (and finish!) the Paris Semi and raised $2,000 for our February Surgery Group.

Many thanks to all who have given so that dear children like Shwan can enjoy their childhood, can see firsthand the benefits of learning to give your time and resources away so that others might benefit, and can learn of a world where hate is not the only option.



NEXT IN LINE FOR SURGERY

Bawar Needs Urgent Heart Surgery Outside Iraq
Unlike so many kids we see, Bawar has a condition that makes him a great candidate for a total correction. If we are able to send him to surgery in the next three months, he has a great chance of living a totally normal life. Bawar will hopefully be the 62nd child for whom we’ve provided surgery with your help! As you’ve seen with Shwan above, you really can make a profound difference in his life!


Do you intend on volunteering your time in the near future? May we suggest three ways to volunteer your time with the Preemptive Love Coalition to save children’s lives in Iraq:
newsletter 1.) Sign up for our newsletter to stay apprised of news and ways you can advocate on behalf of Bawar and others to save lives in Iraq.



phone_book_edit 2.) Write a blog post, email, or old-fashioned snail mail letter to your friends alerting them to the situation facing Bawar and let them know that there are solutions available that yield results as fantastic as Shwan’s!
twitter 3.) Send out a “tweet” or a message about us on Facebook, suggesting your friends check out Bawar’s opportunity to receive lifesaving heart surgery. (HINT: You can also use the “SHARE” button below.
  For more volunteering ideas send an email to cody@preemptivelove.org.

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Shwana Gains Weight; Prepares for School Midterms 7 Months Post-Op

December 20, 2009 by Jessica · 431 Comments 

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We visited Shwana in his village today, arriving only two hours before his mid-term test. He sat politely with us talking about football and playstation then excused himself to go study for his test. Sitting under the kitchen window for light (because his house doesn’t have electricity during the day) he and his brother studied together.

We sat in the other room talking over their chants of memorization in the background. His mother proudly explained how he has now outgrown all of his clothes that were falling off his body before his surgery just 7 months ago. Weight gain can be a great sign of health in a post-op child!

His father arrived from his job as a teacher just before lunch in time to quiz Shwana a little before he needed to leave. The entire family exuded happiness and pride in him as we ate a delicious Kurdish meal. After a very quick lunch, Shwana left and hurried to school so he wouldn’t be late for his test.

It was a great day with his family and we are excited with him that what you made happen with a single surgery in Istanbul, Turkey has led to a completely normal life for Shwana back in Iraq.

 

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