There’s a reason ISIS destroys TVs like this one that I saw on the streets of Mosul. There’s a reason they ban cell phones. There’s a reason they go house to house searching for satellite dishes, radios, or any other means of contact with the outside world. In cities like Raqqa, ISIS’s de facto capital in Syria, punishments for being caught with a phone include public whipping and having your hand cut off.

It seems the more territory ISIS loses, the more paranoid they become.

But there’s a reason for their paranoia. ISIS knows that the biggest threat to their ideology of hate isn’t from an army or an airstrike. It’s from relationship with the outside world. Relationship is the biggest threat to any ideology that relies on exclusion and demonization of “the other.”

ISIS knows that it’s easier to vilify someone if you don’t know them. It’s easier to stoke fear if you keep your “enemy” at arm’s length. That’s how you control the narrative. That’s how you sell a caricature of “the other” so you can hold onto power and keep people in check.

This is precisely why now is the most important moment in Mosul. ISIS no longer holds territory in this city, but their presence is still felt. It casts a long shadow over those who stayed through the battle, who braved bullets and bombs—either by choice or because they were being held as human shields.

They’re all ISIS.”

We’ve heard this refrain from more than one soldier as we’ve made our way into some of the most underserved neighborhoods in Mosul.

“Why would you go there? Why would you help them?”

The assumption being that if people stayed this long, there can only be one reason.

Can you see the irony?

It’s the same tactic that ISIS uses to demonize the outside world, now being used against those who survived their rule over Mosul.

It’s the same tactic we use when we demonize those we disagree with politically, or those of a different race or orientation, or those of a different nationality who are simply trying to find refuge in our own country.

And it works. As long as you keep your distance. As long as you don’t get close enough to see the humanity of “the other.”

This is why we need to keep showing up with love—even before we’re entirely sure we love the people we’re showing up for. This is how we learn to love.

This is why we need to shine light into the dark corners of their broken communities and our own hearts.

While others cling to ideologies of exclusion, we must press into places like Mosul, and say, “We are here, and we do not believe everything negative and scary that we’ve been told about you. We see you, and we will risk our lives to join you in bringing, building, and breathing into being ‘the more beautiful world our hearts know is possible.’”

This is about more than rebuilding a city. It’s about disrupting the cycle of hate and violence—by closing the distance between us and “the other.”


Lean in and love anyway in the hardest places.

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